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Ugh. Patience has never been my best virtue so maybe God is trying to teach me something through this experience. Who knows? All I know is I'm tired of waiting.
We've been waiting for Baby #2 for over a year. We waited until we had been trying for 6 months and then started getting checked out. 6 months ago we found out that DH has a severely low sperm count. Then we had to wait a month to get in to see a urologist. We found out that he needed surgery on his varicocele and then we had to wait 2 months for the surgery. Then we have to wait 3 months to see if that surgery has improved things at all. That 3 months is *almost* up, but depending on where things stand....we might be told to wait some more. I'm just sooo tired of it all
I wish I had all the answers for you darling. I wish I could just 'give you' a baby to stop all your hurting. I know there is not much people can say to you other then "don't give up". I know how you feel and I wish I could give you a big hug right now. I pray for you everyday in hopes that your baby will come into your hearts sooner then later.
I'm so sorry, the waiting is so very hard, I had to wait 26 months for my first baby and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to endure, I do think God was trying to teach me something though because I grew closer to him during that time rather then getting angry and resentful towards him, the spirtual part of my marriage and relationship with God really grew during that time and I have a strong feeling I've been made to go through this to help others in the future that might go through the same thing. I hope the waiting is over for all of us very soon!
I hear you. It feels like we've been waiting to get to these apts and then for zero results. We waited a year to achieve a pregnancy, had a miscarriage, waited to stop bleeding, waited to be back to health, waited for DH's urology apt, now we're almost done waiting for the surgery. I feel your pain!!! I wish I could take it away for all of us.
Just the waiting for AF each month is as fun as slamming your hand in a door over and over.