new suggestion for a board.wdyt??

#1 June 2nd, 2006, 07:47 PM

i dont know how this board might do... dont know if there is alot of us in the same postion as me..

married lived on our own for most of ashlyn's life but was forced to move back in with my parents due to money issues....

i heard some moms are in the same situation but we dont really have support... and i think we need to have support because some moms feel that their marriages are gonna end due to the inlaws living situation... i know my marriage is on the rocks because of it...

would like some kind of input if its a yay or nay....

also tips/advice to get along with the new living situations....

#2 June 3rd, 2006, 09:01 AM

bump-

any opinions

xceptionalchic4 · #3 June 3rd, 2006, 09:36 AM

I think its a good idea.. we arent married but we've lived together before having are child..and now we're with my mom.. and I feel like our relationship kinda suffers because of it...

justjaQ · #4 June 3rd, 2006, 01:55 PM

ugh, i'm in this situation too. we'd been on our own for a few years, but due to some really crappy circumstances, we're stuck back with my family for a bit. my husband does NOT get along with my step-dad, so this will not be fun. it is not going to work... :S

Zoes_Mommy · #5 June 4th, 2006, 02:02 PM

We arent married yet.
We lived in an appartment for a while last year. then due to money issues
we moved in with my parents for a while now we are at his parents house. It is tough. I mean i feel bad about it but there really isnt much we can do it about.. it sucks..

#6 June 7th, 2006, 04:11 PM

bump-

#7 June 23rd, 2006, 06:32 PM

i guess this sugestion is no??????!!!!!!!!?????

does each new sugestion need alot of popularity in order for it to be done?

Lynettesmommy · #8 June 25th, 2006, 09:08 AM

I saw this just now and think it is a great idea. We arent married yet but we lived on our own for about 5 years then again like everyone else here money issues came up and now we are at his parents house. Its not bad for the most part be it is crowded and if we get into a fight it sucks bc his mom always comments (mostly on my side but still) SO my vote would be YES for the board.

Zoes_Mommy · #9 June 25th, 2006, 12:11 PM

I think there are several people on the boards with these issues but lots of ppl dont check out this section of the board but maybee we can get more ppl interested.. Because its a hard situation to be in and not everyone understands if they arent in the same boat ya know..

xceptionalchic4 · #10 June 25th, 2006, 01:49 PM

^^Yeah I was thinking the same thing... I actually sent someone in our PR that has this issue to check out this board and the suggestion.. I think this board would be very useful

#11 July 14th, 2006, 04:51 PM

bumping!!!!

xceptionalchic4 · #12 July 15th, 2006, 09:11 AM

Maybe it can be added as subforum to a board???

Jami_Michelle · #13 July 15th, 2006, 10:40 AM

I just posted about this, and it makes me feel better I am not the only one going thru this so I say YES!!!!!!! DEFINETLY!!!!!

beckii · #14 July 16th, 2006, 09:15 AM

I think this is a great idea. Me and my boyfriend never lived on our own but I moved in with him and his family during my pregnancy because of issues with my mom's boyfriend.. I hate it here more then anything because his mother is an alcoholic and his grandmother is very close to alzheimers.. We really want to get our own place but can't afford it because of money issues..

I vote yes for this board I think it'd be great support for everyone who needs it.

xceptionalchic4 · #15 July 16th, 2006, 10:04 AM

Bumped
(can u really see I like the idea for this as a board or a subforum...lol)

Charley · #16 July 18th, 2006, 12:38 AM

I think this board is an awsome idea.

We're not married, but we're living with my BFs parents.

We just can't afford to live on our own at the moment, well we could be money would be REALLY thight, and I'm tryin to pay off my credit card.
Its another 7 months b4 I go back to work from Mat leave, so its at least 7 months b4 we can move.

Zoes_Mommy · #17 July 19th, 2006, 10:17 AM

I am glad to see a couple more people interested..
Its a sucky situation.. I had a job but it wasnt paying me to drive 30 min due to gas and paying a babysitter.. and she is the only person i know that can keep zoe.. so im in between a rock and a hard place

stephie1012 · #18 July 20th, 2006, 11:46 AM

REALLY REALLY good idea, maybe some others can relate to why i hate living with MIL!!

stephanie

TeresaSuperMama · #19 July 20th, 2006, 12:00 PM

We will be adding an inlaws board and can have a subforum for people living with their inlaws on that. I think that will add more flexibility and room for growth.

Teresa