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August 4th, 2006, 07:53 AM
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Hi i was wondering if we could get a board for support for those of us that want or long for another baby but our dh or boyfriends are not willing to haev another. i know for me i have no one to talk about this and it does not really fit anywhere else thank you for talking the time to read this looking foward to seeing the outcome and i am willing to be the host also
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August 5th, 2006, 07:01 AM
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i guess i should add that me and dh have been together for almost 7 years married for 5 years ttc #1 for almost 3years and decided to haev #2 right away so my kids were planned i guess i am one of the few that believe i was put on earth to be a moma dn i enjoy doing it ya know so thats why it is so hard for me
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August 5th, 2006, 07:12 AM
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I suggested this about a month or so ago, but I guess there wasn't enough interest because it never got created.

I'll say it again, I would really love to see this on JM!!!
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August 5th, 2006, 08:29 AM
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yay i am glad someone else does
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August 11th, 2006, 04:26 PM
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I think this is a great idea!! DH does not want anymore but I on the other hand would love too have one or two more!!! ANd it is hard when you have noone to talk to that understands how that feels!!! I would not mind co hosting it with you either!!!! This was a great idea! Hopefully more are interested!!
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August 13th, 2006, 09:27 AM
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I think its a great idea!!
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August 13th, 2006, 03:04 PM
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What about using the deciding to try/waiting to try board at the bottom of TTC. I know many of the ladies there are waiting for their DH's to say yes! I used to go on that board for support! HTH
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August 13th, 2006, 08:30 PM
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What about using the deciding to try/waiting to try board at the bottom of TTC. I know many of the ladies there are waiting for their DH's to say yes! I used to go on that board for support! HTH[/b]
I've lurked there and never really seen a similar situation to what the ladies in this thread are talking about. We don't really fit into that board because we're not deciding to try or waiting to try. We're not trying, because our dh's don't want to try...ever. It's kind of hard to participate in their conversations and get support from them because they still have hope, whereas our dh's are probably vasectomy bound to prevent any pregnancy (I know my dh is). We're done because our dh's are completely against the idea of another child, despite it being a top priority to us. Which is why we also don't fit into the done having children board, because those ladies are in agreeance with their dh's about being done, while we still want more. Does that make sense (it's late!)?
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August 13th, 2006, 09:09 PM
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I think that this is a great idea. I am also in the same situation. I would love to have one or two more, but my DH doesn't want anymore.
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August 14th, 2006, 06:01 AM
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this is great that you girls are agreesing at first i was like no one is going to agree but you are i hope we get this section
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August 17th, 2006, 05:02 PM
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Oh ok I understand I thought you meant like trying to convince him to ttc kinda thing! hope you get the board your looking for!
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August 17th, 2006, 05:55 PM
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nope just support i am not trying to convince him evan if i tryed he wouldn't budge
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Added this one today. Here's the link http://www.justmommies.com/boards/in...?showforum=594

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August 18th, 2006, 09:51 AM
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Thank you so much Teresa!!!
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Thank you
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