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October 12th, 2006, 03:17 PM
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I just wanted to offer my support for you during this time. I am here if you need someone to talk to, cry or vent with.
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October 12th, 2006, 04:01 PM
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Thank you so much for your support.... It means a lot to me...
This is all still so new to me, still not sure how to deal with it really.
I'm not sure if it's really even hit me yet!!
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October 12th, 2006, 05:30 PM
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Hugs

I went through alot of emotions when I was diagnosed.....

Denial,Anger,Fear,Sadness & finally Acceptance.


I am here too if you need to talk,scream ,vent,cry.

Stay positive the fear of the unknown is far worse than knowing
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October 12th, 2006, 07:24 PM
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It does take awhile to sink in although I think I knew before I was told. The crying came first for me, then the why mes and finally I came up with a plan. Let yourself go through it all and try to let dh "help". He'll want to make it better even though he can't but let him in if you can.

At the very least you can voice your fears, concerns and angers here.....no judgement, no pats on the back - just support.
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October 13th, 2006, 08:50 PM
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Thank you all so much for your kind words, it is so nice to know people going through the same thing. Although I wish I knew you girls under happier times.
I guess right now I am getting over the shock of it all, will I ever accept it??? I feel like right now at this point i never will....
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October 14th, 2006, 01:44 PM
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I don't think I ever accepted it ... I just tried to figure out what I was going to do if this happened or that happened. I also had to have extensive surgery within a week of my diagnosis (my scar runs from knee to groin on my right inner thigh and they took skin, fat and some muscle as well as 2 lymph nodes in the groin) so recovering from that took me 3 weeks in which I was focused on getting better and dealing with my twins at the same time.

How did I go day to day ...I spent as much time with my kids as possible. I taped myself reading to them. Oh and I cried a lot.....but I don't think I ever accepted it.
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October 14th, 2006, 03:15 PM
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I have done nothing but cry the past few days. I have started to come to the conclusion that I DO have it, but I also know I will fight it too....
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October 16th, 2006, 01:28 AM
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Hugs.

I have never accepted it but have learnt to live with it.

Take your time working through your emotions.

We are here for you.
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October 16th, 2006, 03:49 PM
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Thank you so much! All of your support is so great!!!!
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