A question for you.....

Do you have trouble talking to your partner? Do you feel like you will hurt their feelings?

I know that it can be hard to be the one having to be strong all the time. And to show that things are alot or that you need to talk about your frustrations or whatever it maybe.

Just wondered if you find this a diffcult thing to do!

Just curious......

Yes, I do find it difficult to talk to him sometimes. He always feels like he is a burden, and I have to reassure him that he isn't, so to voice my frustrations to him would just make matters worse. I do talk to him when it gets to be way too much, just to keep myself from getting overwhelmed, but other than that, I don't talk to him about it. We also don't talk about it b/c we disagree on how he should take care of himself. He wants to do things that aren't the best things for him to do, and it frustrates me.

YEp sometimes I do but then again we usually do eventully talk about it!

But then there are times where being the big pighead I am I just ignore it. We all know what happens when we do that. We try to spend at least one night now talking about things or throughout the week. We're stuck in the TRY spot right now! It will gt better with time but I think we can!

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Originally posted by medic1521@Oct 30 2004, 01:42 PM
YEp sometimes I do but then again we usually do eventully talk about it!*

But then there are times where being the big pighead I am I just ignore it. We all know what happens when we do that. We try to spend at least one night now talking about things or throughout the week.* We're stuck in the TRY spot right now!* It will gt better with time but I think we can!
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I am glad you are trying to communicate with each other. And I agree with time it will get better just be patient (both of you) You and Becky ARE TRYING and that is all that matters something that my Ex did not do. You are a team you got to work together on this and it seems you are now. I hope it continues this way because for me it was only a one sided and that is why my marriage didn't make it. My Ex thought it was all me. He NOW realizes it wasn't but a little to late. ((((HUGS)))) to both of you.
-Dori