It has been quiet here! How is everyone??? Doing good?

Been crazy around here...I'm worn out and ready for a vacation!

Soooooooo what is new in your life????????

[nmyddseyes]

Life here is okay still single and disabled LOL

But I hope things can settled down for you and you can relax you deserve it. What you been going through these past few days can drain anyone out! (((((HUGS)))))

-Dori

Things are going slow here. We had our first couples counseling appointment since the s*&t hit the fan on Monday. I am so worn out it is not funny I havent been sleeping, eating is painful because my stomach has been hurting and my IBS has flared up. Plus Monday night I slept on the couch and was being stubborn so I refused to go back into the bedroom for a blanket. My shoulder was just about frozen when I woke up in the morning.
The counselor had us do lists of what we would lose if we split up, then lists of things that need to be worked on and things that would be deal breakers. Then he doesnt want us to talk about them for a few days, and when we do talk about them he wants us to be out of the house, in a quiet place without the kids (goodluck on that one LOL.) By the time we got done there, did our Walmart shopping and I dropped Jon off at work I was just flat out exhausted.
I just want to curl up with my best friend and cry my eyes out, but she is in UT and I cannot afford to go visit her right now. She will be here for Thanksgiving but I am supposed to be at my FIL's wedding and don't know if I am going to get home before she has to leave. My Mom and Dad just keep telling me "I told you so" and asking why we keep putting off the enevitable(sp) and Jons folks have not called here in ages, oh he talked to them before he brought this all up to me too. So they knew while I was still walking around clueless and he wasn't even planning on telling me Mon, it just happened in the middle of our fight.

Anyway I will stop, you guys don't need to be dumped on, I just don't have anyone else to turn to right now.

[*~Lissa~*]

Well as you know becky and Rani-dae I threw my back out. I'm now applying for Disability because I'm on a no work order from my dr. *sighs*

Originally posted by ranidae@Nov 4 2004, 12:10 AM
Things are going slow here. We had our first couples counseling appointment since the s*&t hit the fan on Monday. I am so worn out it is not funny I havent been sleeping, eating is painful because my stomach has been hurting and my IBS has flared up. Plus Monday night I slept on the couch and was being stubborn so I refused to go back into the bedroom for a blanket.* My shoulder was just about frozen when I woke up in the morning.
The counselor had us do lists of what we would lose if we split up, then lists of things that need to be worked on and things that would be deal breakers. Then he doesnt want us to talk about them for a few days, and when we do talk about them he wants us to be out of the house, in a quiet place without the kids (goodluck on that one LOL.) By the time we got done there, did our Walmart shopping and I dropped Jon off at work I was just flat out exhausted.
I just want to curl up with my best friend and cry my eyes out, but she is in UT and I cannot afford to go visit her right now. She will be here for Thanksgiving but I am supposed to be at my FIL's wedding and don't know if I am going to get home before she has to leave. My Mom and Dad just keep telling me "I told you so" and asking why we keep putting off the enevitable(sp) and Jons folks have not called here in ages, oh he talked to them before he brought this all up to me too. So they knew while I was still walking around clueless and he wasn't even planning on telling me Mon, it just happened in the middle of our fight.

Anyway I will stop, you guys don't need to be dumped on, I just don't have anyone else to turn to right now.
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Rani,

I'm here!!!

PM me and I'll call if you would like!!!

LOTS OF LOVE & ((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))

Originally posted by Alisteal@Nov 4 2004, 12:19 AM
Well as you know becky and Rani-dae I threw my back out. I'm now applying for Disability because I'm on a no work order from my dr. *sighs*
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Good luck on the disability!! Keep us posted!!! I'm sooo sorry you hurt your back, do you need help??? I could use something to distract me right now!! Just would have to put up with two more kids! Or you could stay with us....Mike & I have talked a lot out....so don't worry!!

My door is here and if you just need to vent that is fine!!! Call me if you need help!! B)

Originally posted by Us2GiRLs@Nov 3 2004, 11:35 PM
Life here is okay still single and disabled LOL

But I hope things can settled down for you and you can relax you deserve it.* What you been going through these past few days can drain anyone out!* (((((HUGS)))))

-Dori
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Sound similar to me...except I'm not single!

Been keeping busy???

I'll try and catch you on IM!!

[LuckyGirlx4]

Originally posted by ranidae@Nov 3 2004, 10:10 PM
Things are going slow here. We had our first couples counseling appointment since the s*&t hit the fan on Monday. I am so worn out it is not funny I havent been sleeping, eating is painful because my stomach has been hurting and my IBS has flared up. Plus Monday night I slept on the couch and was being stubborn so I refused to go back into the bedroom for a blanket.* My shoulder was just about frozen when I woke up in the morning.
The counselor had us do lists of what we would lose if we split up, then lists of things that need to be worked on and things that would be deal breakers. Then he doesnt want us to talk about them for a few days, and when we do talk about them he wants us to be out of the house, in a quiet place without the kids (goodluck on that one LOL.) By the time we got done there, did our Walmart shopping and I dropped Jon off at work I was just flat out exhausted.
I just want to curl up with my best friend and cry my eyes out, but she is in UT and I cannot afford to go visit her right now. She will be here for Thanksgiving but I am supposed to be at my FIL's wedding and don't know if I am going to get home before she has to leave. My Mom and Dad just keep telling me "I told you so" and asking why we keep putting off the enevitable(sp) and Jons folks have not called here in ages, oh he talked to them before he brought this all up to me too. So they knew while I was still walking around clueless and he wasn't even planning on telling me Mon, it just happened in the middle of our fight.

Anyway I will stop, you guys don't need to be dumped on, I just don't have anyone else to turn to right now.
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))))))) )))))))) I'm new to this board, and I don't know the particulars, but know that I'm keeping you both in my prayers.