July 17th, 2012, 10:06 PM
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)O( Blessed Be )O(
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Join Date: May 2010
Location: Kelowna, B.C
Posts: 3,499
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It was a little sooner than expected...
My Aunt came down on Sunday, and we spent the day outside at the beach. She's been really concerned about where I've been living and didn't like the person I was becoming due to it.
So, she took the initiative, and called it an intervention, and said "We're moving you out today!". With no notice to exBF.
He had become so obsessed/possesive, and it was just becoming extremely unhealthy, and he's an energy vampire. I always felt soooooo drained around him! It's was horrible.
While it was extremely hard leaving him, I'm already feeling better. I currently live with my mother because it was the best situation for me, and while it's not ideal, I have to remind myself it's not forever.
But the ex keeps playing mind games and is manipulating me, and almost stalkerish, and it's over-whelming. While there's a part of me that believes him and cares for me, there's another part of me telling me to get my **** together. I've never been through something this extreme! 
But I'm glad my Aunt did what she did, even though the ex tries to make me feel guilty for moving out.
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