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February 6th, 2013, 09:22 PM
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There is this clique at school. I dont hardly talk to them outside of school but while Im there I try to "entertain" myself by hanging out with them. first when ppl are holding a conversation I didnt realize you were suppose to say excuse me every time you wanted to say anything having to do with the conversation. It would go a little like this: excuse me, how was your day. excuse me, my day was good. ugh... and to top it off she acts like She is responsible for making me part everything. I gave up arguing with her on fb on my wall post and just agreed. It makes so mad. I had to stop and think, why are you letting her get to you. None of them are any good. they are thief's and liars. I know this. why do I want so bad to talk and have a conversation with these group of girls... bc I sit at home all day not talking to anyone but myself and Brea I need adult conversation. and she just texted me and asked if we could talk in a few min. GREAT. I feel like I will say my mind if I dont calm down. oh and the title I was trying to write VENT** but some how clicked post ....
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February 7th, 2013, 01:14 AM
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sweetie xxx

It's human nature to want friends. However this group does sound toxic. Are there other people on your course you could befriend instead? I know it's hard to start out again but honestly I think it would be better for you!

When you have to be around them, shield yourself! Ask Archangel Michael for protection. I posted a whole thing about shielding as my angel message of the day yesterday on FB and I will post it here as well for you.

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February 7th, 2013, 06:34 AM
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Not really Sharron unless I want to hang out with a bunch of boys who talk about farts and women lol. Thanks going to look now!
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February 7th, 2013, 06:36 AM
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lol fair point. Do the shielding then hun, and let us know how it goes xxx

You could also try visualising sending them pink light. That usually promotes more harmony in friendships and relationships xxx

You could also carry carnelian or green agate for friendship.
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February 7th, 2013, 01:01 PM
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*hugs*

Sometimes I'm glad 95% of my friends live inside the computer. They're easy to block out and ignore.
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I feel for you, though I don't really have an answer for you...Sharron's suggestions are great...I would definitely take her advise in this situation...~or~ brush up on your farts repertoire~ lol.
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