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February 12th, 2013, 01:07 PM
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Well... I had an interesting night last night.

Chris and I got in a huuuge fight. Horrible. There was yelling and arguing and horrible things were said between the two of us. I hate fights like that, but thank goodness Nevaeh was asleep and didn't wake up. That has to be the worst thing in the world to wake up to, your parents fighting...

Anyways, after much arguing, and some tears on my end and some apologies. We both came to the realization and agreement that I need to find my own place. Living together is just too toxic and he feels that I need to find my own place and struggle with money in order to "grow up" and what not. I just don't hold money with such importance as he does and he has a hard time with that. So he thinks that me getting my own place will help me "grow up" in that department.

I think getting my own place will be healthy for him and I, and more importantly Nevaeh. His mother on the other hand has other things to say, but this is the same woman who said I secretly planned the pregnancy to solve all my problems so.

The only bummer is I'm pretty sure I will have to find Maverick a new home I'm so upset and have cried over this already. I love him so much, but it is sooooo hard to find a place to live that will take dogs. People here only think you should have ankle biters, not dogs that are practically part horse. He's such a sweet boy though. Chris could keep him, but he'd be in a crate for over 8 hours a day which is rough.

We'll see how it goes though and if I can find a place. Me finding a new home for Maverick just adds fuel to the MIL's fire. She seems to think I find pets disposable. Which was another fight a few years ago, which is outrageous. The woman needs to up her meds. Sorry. Rant over. Karma is just and what goes around comes around. I just need to remain calm.
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February 12th, 2013, 02:14 PM
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I'm only just hopping on tonight for a quick glance, have been out all day, need to give Michaela some supper soon and then get her down for the night asap to get some sleep...so for now and I'm thinking of you xxx
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February 12th, 2013, 03:40 PM
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I'm sorry sweetie, what kind of a dog is he?
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February 12th, 2013, 06:43 PM
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Thanks Sharron

He's a Malamute/Husky cross. His dad was 160lbs. So he's going to be a big boy and he's not even a year yet. He's a big cuddler, and just wants to make you happy. He's seriously the sweetest
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February 12th, 2013, 09:00 PM
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Good luck in finding a place where you can take him with you. Don't lose hope, there are some great landlords out there who are happy for tenants to have pets.

Look into getting some 'references' for him, from the vet, your neighbours and such.
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February 13th, 2013, 07:35 AM
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Sorry things are so tough right now. I hope you can find a place that works well for you, and find a home for your pup. *hugs*
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February 13th, 2013, 07:42 AM
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Hugs.
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February 13th, 2013, 02:36 PM
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oh honey, I am so sorry
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February 13th, 2013, 03:10 PM
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February 13th, 2013, 03:51 PM
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Aweeee what a sweetheart
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February 13th, 2013, 08:15 PM
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Im sorry this is gonna be rough for a while but I think, in the end, things will blossom for the best for everyone concerned.
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