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Ugh, what a night. Michaela hadn't been well or seemed like herself all day. She fell asleep in the evening, and when I do my turn for the night I usually wake her around 10.30 for a last bottle, but I left it an hour because she hadn't been able to nap all day and was sound asleep, and I had started feeling nauseous and having a bit of an upset tummy after dinner, so I figured I wouldn't sleep just yet anyway. She then didn't get back to sleep until after 1am - she's very snuffly so was just struggling to settle - and it was even later for me by the time I relaxed enough. Then, she was making noises all night with being unsettled and though she wasn't actually waking up, it was making me up. I think I've had a total of 3-4 hours sleep, all broken. I had plans to start clearing out today and I have no energy, no motivation and ache all over.
This pattern just seems to repeat and repeat for me right now, every time I think there's been a shift and some improvement I end up right back here. Stop the rollercoaster, I wanna get off! lol.
So I did make a start, I went through my paperwork and did a big clear out.
My P45 is missing from my last job, I vaguely remember DP posting it off when he appealed his benefit claim (I was pretty poorly at the time, it was just after Michaela was born), and he says he never got it back or heard back from them. I am SO pissed off. I mean I'm going to need it if/when I get a new job....he never even chased it up when they had other people's important documents?? I've just ranted at him about it and he's STILL just playing his game and not really saying anything. I'm furious!!!!! I don't even know what you're supposed to do about this, it's just one of those documents you're not supposed to lose - and I didn't!!!!
I understand your frustration. Especially when it comes to something that was not due to your own self, and now you're going to have problems with it. I had something with Chris when I separated from him last year, and is why to this day I owe the government $1,400.