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We actually have a long running joke in my family that you only get pregnant when you don't want to/aren't ready/least expecting it. It has happened at least once to each of my grandmother's children.
in 05 I was working my butt off, lost 55lbs and felt great.. and *poof* pregnant.
in 2009, lost 30lbs *poof* again.
But I can't seem to get the weight off. My thyroid is sick, I've done what I myself alone can do for it up to this point. So I will get it some love and tlc, get it working right, and then it and I will team up and beat the rest of my body into shape.
Dh said to me last night, that with him being gone so much, it's good that we aren't having a baby right now (we were due at the end of March), and that maybe we should pack away the ttc stuff until the fall when we have a better look on where we are going (financial/job wise... we aren't having any problems as a couple), which also gives us sometime to both get healthier. And if it happens in the meantime, then it happens.
I just hope when I make my appointment I don't have to jump through a bunch of hoops to get my thyroid addressed. I'd like to feel human again sooner rather than later.
I do think it's starting to bounce back from what ever the heck went wrong with it the last two cycles (most likely the soy we tried for one cycle).. since I haven't needed a nap in days.
~TTC #1 together 1 year and counting ~
Battling Estrogen Dominance, Hashimoto's Thyroiditis and Recurrent Miscarriage one day at a time
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Message #2 Divine Timing is at play here. It's a life lesson for many of us and it feels like you are one of the lucky ones who gets to be in on learning it. Part of the lesson of Divine Timing is letting go of the illusion that YOU can control the HOW or the WHEN your miracle baby arrives. It feels to me that you must 1. take the meds, 2. love your body and 3. surrender to the lesson... and as SOON as you manage that, the universe can deliver your dream. It's feeling your struggle and is just waiting for a moment of internal peace so that it can help you. Now, as I'm typing this out, I can feel your reaction and what it will be. HUGS. It's a lot to take in and to absorb and a few years ago when Sharron was giving me a similar message, I had a similar reaction. So, whenever you need someone to listen and to lean on.. I'm here! LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU.
Tough message, but true. You do have to let go to let in something good. It took me 10 years to do that. Please listen and believe in the powers that your dream will be realized in time. it is so easier said then done. You will sit back and say, "Okay I let go!" and the next cycle you will go why no +. Peace to you!