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Just read this and wondered if anyone has had any good results with it? I'm not looking for a new car or any material items, just issues in my marriage to be resolved but I'm sure free will comes into play here too so I'm not sure how well it would work for me.
My thought on the law of attraction is this. It's a beautiful thing. However, you must apply the principles to your WHOLE life. It's effective in that way.. as a practice I'm not sure you can just apply it to one area of your life.. might be like trying to exercise only your thighs. I know from experience that just doesn't work too well. UGH!
But I do also think you can focus on one area and put clear intentions to improve that one area to the universe for a short and focused period of time.
Remember though that the law of attraction states that what you think, you create - what you focus on, you attract. So if you cosmic order and work with crystals you do some good, but then you go around focusing in your head on the problems in your marriage rather than the good, because this is what you're CONTINUALLY focusing on, it's still more problems that you attract.
As well as doing cosmic ordering and work with crystals, you then need to hold that intention that your life will be filled with love and passion, your marriage will be strong, etc - using affirmations and replacing any negative thoughts with positive ones.
I sort of did this before, not following an exact formula, but intuitively, to heal my heart and attract real love into my life following a string of disasters. But it took a year, it involved cosmic ordering, crystal healing with various crystals I picked up along the way, meditation, and gradually over time creating a sort of love altar filled with hearts, roses and appropriate crystals.
And the absolute key with any cosmic ordering / LoA work is the letting go. You truly do have to state your intention and then let go and trust the universe. I'm awful at letting go. What I had to do to truly let go was do my spiritual work, but then on a practical and emotional level, focus on other areas of life rather than my love life. I didn't initiate any new relationships in that time, I spent my time visiting friends, travelling, spending quality time with Daniel, working, and studying music. I filled my life so full of other things there wasn't time to think about lack of a love life. Not sure exactly how that would translate to an existing marriage, you'd probably need to think it out.