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April 1st, 2013, 11:31 AM
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Gave, and gave, and gave, and gave and done, and done, and done, and done for someone? Then found out that what they're saying to your face is the opposite of what they're saying behind your back?

I've cried tears today. I don't know if the story is true yet, but it hurts all the same at the mere thought. I will always give, and always do. But sometimes it hurts a lot.

Ever done this?
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April 1st, 2013, 11:35 AM
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More times than I care to count.

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April 1st, 2013, 01:07 PM
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Oh yes, so much lately. And it hurts so much.
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April 1st, 2013, 03:41 PM
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Been there many times myself.
Ive just cried and hurt and opened up myself to learn the lesson I was meant to.
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April 1st, 2013, 07:28 PM
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Yup, enough times that I no longer even try... I have so few friends because most of the ones in the past just use and abuse then complain... so I don't both anymore.

*hugs* I hope the story isn't true sweetie!
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April 2nd, 2013, 05:01 AM
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I'm sorry sweetie, it sucks so bad when that happens. I hope it's not true

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April 2nd, 2013, 06:06 AM
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April 2nd, 2013, 06:14 AM
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Yes. For most of my life. HUGS. I know it's a place to be that is painful.
I was able to break myself of that habit when I learned two things.
1. Love, friendship, relationships in general should be about reciprocity. So, if it's me giving and getting nothing in return, I believe that the other person has nothing to offer and begin to back away. This is where loving yourself and feeling worthy really come into play.
2. When someone behaves that way, it's about THEM. Not you. What they are doing and saying is all about THEIR character. You gave of yourself and trusted another. That shows YOUR character.
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April 4th, 2013, 03:49 PM
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Thanks so much ladies.

It turns out I was given misinformation and nothing was said behind my back.

Just got upset for nothing this time around
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April 5th, 2013, 06:12 AM
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Well said Terri.
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April 8th, 2013, 04:54 PM
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Great advice Terri!!

Yep but like Terri have learned not to do so much for others who seem unwilling to do stuff for me now. I am a people pleaser so it is hard to do but I am getting better at it as I get older.
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