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September 30th, 2010, 06:13 AM
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So first of all, we've been approved as a medically fragile home and our son has been deemed a "medically fragile" child. That means we get a bit more in a board payment each month for him. That will allow us to FINALLY start some of the more expensive therapies to help him. Plus we can take him to the doctor that we've been wanting to for a long time! It also means we can bring home the more needy kids... ones that have oxygen or g-tubes, etc. Also, we had another TPR trial for him last week and the judge approved TPR right there in court! His grandmother decided it would be best for him if she stopped pursuing reunification with him. So now we wait a few weeks and he'll be free to be adopted. If my husband decides to adopt him, we'll go ahead with it right away, but he is not wanting to. Lil Buddy is just a hard kiddo. With all his issues and such, DH is unsure if he can be his father. I have to respect his decision as much as it kills me to think someone else might come and want to be Lil Buddy's parents. But since he does have so many issues, I doubt many people will jump at the chance to parent him, so I think we have a while before we have to make a real decision.
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September 30th, 2010, 09:23 AM
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about Lil Buddy being up for adoption soon! I hope your family is able to adopt him Beth! Would you like me to keep him in my prayers?
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September 30th, 2010, 12:18 PM
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Ill be praying for your family!!!
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October 1st, 2010, 09:40 AM
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YES! Keep us in your prayers. I'm praying for God to really lay on my Husband's heart that he CAN be a good father to Lil Buddy and that he really WANTS to be his father too.
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October 1st, 2010, 10:03 AM
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October 1st, 2010, 10:50 AM
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I'll keep your family in my prayers Beth! Marie, I love your new siggy!
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October 3rd, 2010, 06:42 PM
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I'm so glad that things are moving along for Lil Buddy... I hope you and your husband can adopt him soon. I'll be sure to keep you and your family in my prayers!
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