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January 22nd, 2011, 11:18 AM
angel3y35's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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We got our contract package in the mail yesterday. Did anyone else feel completely, totally overwhelmed and scared once the ball actually started rolling? I've been warding off panic attacks since I read over that contract last night. There's so much that could go wrong and that's so much money we've got to try to get a loan for.
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January 23rd, 2011, 01:40 PM
SarahBethsMommy's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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I'm not going through a private agency, so we didn't have that. But we were pretty overwhelmed and totally wondered if we could do it. The paperwork was scarey, the classes were scarey, the unknowns were scarey. But you've been through scarey before. You know you want to do it when the what ifs can't drown out your overwhelming desire to go forward!

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January 25th, 2011, 01:26 PM
tawny63's Avatar Super Mommy
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The paperwork is just a formality...basically to make you realize that this is a business contract. Make sure you read it and understand it. We are signed up with that agency too, so you can ask me if you would rather.
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IUI 05/06 & 10/06 BFN
IUI 11/06 BFP!!! Labeled as chemical
12/06 clomid 50mg=INSANITY and OHSS
Decided to adopt 01/07
raced to the hospital to get our baby boy in August 2007, 12 days after we went "live" to adopt!
Mental break....ahhh. Mommy time....ahhhh. <3
Endometriosis surgery 01/16/09
Femara+IUI 03/09, 04/09, 05/09, 06/09 BFN's
07/09: mixture of acupuncture, herbs, hope, and prayers
09/2009~too much pain, had to go on BCP's.
06/10: Starting adoption process again!!!!!
10/13/10: Adoption paperwork done...now just pray and wait....
01/07/11 profiles turned into the adoption agency.
Matched April 1st, 2011 with a baby girl!
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January 25th, 2011, 07:38 PM
angel3y35's Avatar Mega Super Mommy
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Thanks ladies. I've calmed down now. I think a lot of it was realizing that, yes it's going to happen. We meet with a JAG lawyer Friday to look over everything.
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Our adoption miracle born 12/31/13


06/2004 - Lap for endo and cysts
08/2006 - Lap for endo and cysts
02/2010 - Lap for endo, cysts, and hydrosalpinx repair
02/2011 - Lap for endo, cysts, and RSO
12/2011 - TAH and LSO
5/2012 - Lap for adhesions
4/2013 - Lap for adhesions
Stage IV endometriosis, sever adenomyosis, PCOS, IC
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