[sethsgirl]

I'm ready to give up on this cycle...spotting at 4 dpo has never been good for me before and that's what I had last night about 8pm. I had a small glob of creamy CM with 2 blood stripes in it. I've had that happen in 2 other cycles before like I said in my other post so now I don't know if I'll even test at all. I was trying to stay somewhat hopeful but the spotting mixed with what the stupid doctor said I don't really have any hope left. I just hope this month goes by fast so that I can go on vacation and hopefully not have to deal with the wait since I'm sure after this month and me talking about SA DH is going to prevent as much as he can.

[tiffanys]

Don't give up just yet, Hun...It's perfect timing for it to be implantation bleeding for you! I'm still pulling for you Colleen and you will be in my prayers!

[Misty_X]

Colleen, it's breaking my heart to see you so despondent right now. I could really slap that doctor - she's certainly done nothing to help you, she's made you lose all hope.

I know that it's hard but PLEASE don't lose hope, especially not this early on. Every cycle, every woman and every pregnancy is different but here are some hard facts: Spotting at about 4 DPO is most likely left-over ovulation spotting. It can take a couple of days for the blood to travel out. I rarely get O spotting but it has happened to me occasionally and usually happens between 2-4/5 DPO. As for the cramping you had last night, there's every chance that could be a good sign. That could be the fertilised egg making its way down to implant. I've heard a lot of women say they have cramping all the way from O to when AF would arrive when they get their BFP, and it happened to me. I thought AF was coming for a whole week! Plus, all it takes sometimes is one time. One single time. I'm lucky if I'm up to BDing once a month, let alone every after day from AF to O! What your doctor told you was totally wrong. We all know she was completely mistaken, with most of what she told you. Grr, the more I think about it the angrier I become. What a horrible doctor!

I wish that I could do or say more - I just don't want you to lose heart. It's far from over and we're all going to be right here through every step of this wait with you x x

[sethsgirl]

Thanks ladies! The waiting sucks! Last night DH was saying something and I said no we can't go do that, he asked why not and I said because I could be pregnant and he laughed and said no your not. I said well I could be, we BD'd (didn't say BD'd lol) the day before I ovulated and he said well your not pregnant, you can't get pregnant. I was like gee thanks. I think I'm getting a cold too. Yesterday my nose was runny and this morning I woke up and my throat hurt but now its fine (woke up an hour and a half ago). I have no clue, I would just like some answers!!! lol

[Misty_X]

Join the sniffle club, Colleen! I'm buried knee-deep in tissues! I don't think you caught it from me though, I don't remember sneezing on my keyboard...

Ahh-CHOO! (Oops!)

[orange_pekoe]

Aw, it makes me sad to hear you so down too, especially because your profile picture is so cheerful and brightens my day every time I see it! It's not over until AF shows in full force, so just keep on waiting. Waiting is the hardest part indeed. :/

[Misty_X]

Your picture always cheers me up, too - you have a beautiful smile, Colleen!

How are the cramps and spotting today? x

[~preacherswife~]

Try not to be down and dont every lose hope, you never know what God might have in store for you this month! Good Luck to you!