My fault if i dont get a bfp this cycle

swtneka · #1 April 13th, 2009, 09:52 PM

I :"should be Oing around the 14-16th and i am taking opk's my temp checking my cm everything i can do to get me that bfp my af is due on the 28th so i will be testing on the 26th (cross my fingers i can wait that long) but i started doing my opk's and got a faint line for 2 days and then this morning it was no line does that mean that i o'd my temp has stayed at 97.2-97.5 and my cervix is closed and hard with wet sticky cm so I couldnt have o'd right but why would i get no line when i tested this morning but get faint lines the other two times. I dont know i hope i didnt cuz even though i bd for the past few days i didnt last night cuz i was so beat and didnt have the energy. but to wake up and get no line or a really fainter line kind of scares me and wonder if i missed that window last night. I am scared that if i dont get that bfp it will be my fault cuz i was too tired. what yall think

#2 April 14th, 2009, 12:46 AM

Girl don't beat yourself up first of all. We all get so beat we don't want any. If you don't get the bfp, you have next month. I've been in the same situation so I know exactly how you feel, but you can't be so hard on yourself. Just wait it out. Its not over till the witch shows up!!

Alchemist · #3 April 14th, 2009, 02:21 AM

with Futuremama......

try not stress. its not great for falling pg.......

babyjen · #4 April 14th, 2009, 07:42 PM

OPKs operate different than HPTs. OPKs measure LH (Lutenizing Hormone) which you always produce. Depending on the levels of your LH, you may see faint lines or darker come and go, but you get your positive only when the test line is as dark or darker than the control line. That's when your LH surges and your about to ovulate. If you haven't seen that yet, don't stop testing. GL hun!!

swtneka · #5 April 14th, 2009, 09:31 PM

Thanks yall....

AmandaHugNKiss · #6 April 15th, 2009, 06:13 AM

what Jen says... the LH can rise and fall through out the folicular part of the cycle, giving faint, or 'medium' lines on opks... it's only when it really surges before O that it'll show a line as dark or darker than the test line.

My guess would be you didn't O yet, so don't be so hard on yourself... and for goodness sake don't beat yourself up about not wanting to BD - you're not a robot and if you miss this month, there's always next month.

Good luck!

swtneka · #7 April 15th, 2009, 07:12 AM

I dont know ladies I think i o'd early this month and didnt catch it cuz i should have had a postive by now. I usually o around cd10 r cd11 and here it is cd11 and i still tested negative. I started testing cd 7 and got the medium lines and cd9 got nothing and still nothing. around cd 5 i started having my cramps on oneside for 2 days like i do when i o and by now i would have had those pains so i am wondering if its possiable i o'd that early. IDK.....I wont give up though i will keep testing until i get my postive or my period which ever comes first. wish me luck!!!

buyingcar · #8 June 15th, 2009, 02:01 AM

I like this forum a lot

I am trying to bump up the post count, so that I can ask a question with a link

This is my third post

<>*NaYoMi_BaBy_Dreamer*<> · #9 June 24th, 2009, 01:54 PM

swtneka- how is your cycle looking?

buyingcar-how have you been with your cycle and all???

bev26 · #10 August 1st, 2009, 11:13 AM

I know how you feel. I think I also missed my OV this month. Don't beat yourself up about it, though. At the very least, if you did in fact OV, then you'll know a bit more with what to look for using the OPKs next month.