JM and 2WW Newbie

laylaruth · #1 July 14th, 2009, 07:53 AM

Hi there,
well I'm an extreme newbie at this and I was trying to be patient and wait my time for a missed AF and the do a hpt but this is very hard and I'm a bit anxious and obviously can't wait alone in silence... I O'd on the 7th and BD'd a few times on the 8th now I'm just waiting and reading everything I can related and I swear that everything I'm reading I'm experiencing, it may be just psychological.........

and I had some pains yesterday now I'm waiting to see IB and I've been a bit queasy as well. I don't know if I should chalk it all up to being actual symptoms or just to being anxious.

I just want to relax

and let it be but I CAAAAAAN'T

So glad you all are here

Carmoma · #2 July 14th, 2009, 10:10 AM

I sound just like you!

I o'd on the 8th. I am obsessing, obsessing, obsessing! This is my first month ttc too so I know chances are slim. I just wish there was a way to fast-forward time so I can chill out. I don't know how some women can handle this month in and month out. The longer it takes I feel like the loonier I will get. How the heck am I going to manage waiting several more days to test??!

I'm making sure to jot down all the symptoms I get so that if this month we aren't successful I can make sure I don't obsess over the same symptoms next month.

Ima · #3 July 15th, 2009, 12:10 AM

welcome and enjoy your tww.... its like waiitng for your wedding ha ha

laylaruth · #4 July 15th, 2009, 12:50 PM

LOL yes this is true, thanks!!

Mrs_Brady · #5 July 15th, 2009, 02:52 PM

Totally true! I have had one exciting month! Marriage and 2WW all in one month! L

Ima · #6 July 16th, 2009, 12:24 AM

wow... pretty intense!!! the only difference is that you get to dress up for a wedding, but even if you get a BFP, you cant really tell anyone!!!

Mom.to.PinknBlue · #7 July 16th, 2009, 11:13 PM

The TWW is like the most annoying time to me.
I wish you the best of luck!

laylaruth · #8 July 17th, 2009, 10:32 AM

Thanks, its getting a bit eaiser though I'm trying my hardest not to think about it but the hpt-ing date is drawing nearer!!! Hoping for the best thanks ladies!

Kittynoah · #9 July 18th, 2009, 08:52 AM

The tww is torture!!!! I have given in and tested already - even though I knew it was probably too early. It is just too tempting to use those hpt's!!! Wishing you the best! Hopefully we can all get some BFP's!

laylaruth · #10 July 20th, 2009, 09:33 AM

Well I'm 13dpo and AF is due tomorrow. I must admit I am having very mild cramping periodically similar to pre-AF but at the same time not really. I have been extremely moody which I've been trying to suppress but that's been without success LOL.....my NIPNIPS are extremely sore and they are staying erect both of which are new to me. Also, I seem to stay constipated, I'm still queasy pretty much everyday and I've had no headache which was starting to become a common pre-AF symptom and also my cycle pimple seemed confused too! LOL, it came very small last week and now is gone. If I don't wake up with a guest in the morning I will be testing! Whew........I'm a bit confused but still trying not to get my hopes up until I see the BFP............thanks again and good luck ladies

laylaruth · #11 July 21st, 2009, 07:41 AM

This is killing me..........I was expecting AF today and nothing and no sign.....today is 14dpo. I was anxious yesterday and took a test...BFN......then I did one this morning thinking maybe lasts nights urine was diluted and that I'd try again with FMU but still this morning.......BFN..........right now I'm very gassy still no sign of AF what should I do/expect?

Oh yeah last week I was having pains in/near my ovary that I ovulated from does anyone have any insight.......possible eptopic? I dunno what to think right now

I want to wait until Friday and retest but if its more serious I want to deal with it but I don't want to go to the doctor prematurely and look like an anxious fool.......

Carmoma · #12 July 22nd, 2009, 06:57 AM

How are you doing today? Pain near your ovary could be a few things from hormonal to implantation. I wouldn't worry too much about ectopic unless it gets worse.

Today I'm where you were yesterday. 14 dpo according to my calculations but 7 dpo according to fertility friend. No sign of af and no +hpt. All my earlier preggo symptoms are gone. Now thinking this month was a bust.

Anyway, update us!

laylaruth · #13 July 22nd, 2009, 11:58 AM

well today my symptoms are gone too except that I continue to get nauseous when I don't eat or eat too much of something (as my appetite is finiky and has greatly decreased) the only thing that helps is if I suck on a peppermint.

I am going to call this month a bust though as I believe AF snuck in last night. Yeserday I had light spotting (no cramping what so ever) once I got home from work then nothing for the rest of the night (which got me excited) only to wake up to a little more and now I'm having cramping with a flow albeit, less-than-normal flow because its very very light and has alot of that snotty CM in it too. Although this cycle showed up extremely different than any I've had recently, it is still here none-the-less........AF found me

!! but good luck and major babydust to you!!

Thanks for checking up!