[TrustinGod4Babies]

Sooo, December 21,2010... I had a Tubal Reversal. My tubes were tied for about 10yrs. Anyways, ever since...this is my 2nd cycle ( I was mid cycle when I got the surgery). The first AF came at 26 days which is not my usual, but they told me it would be early. The next month (last month), I had HORRIBLE AF symptoms...and a ton of preg symptoms. I was so confused; and I know I hit my fertile days perfectly, so I was devistated when I got AF. In fact, the day I took the test, I wiped and discovered she had come. I spent most of the day extremely emotional.
So this is round 2. I decided it was prob best to start charting so I could see what is the new NORMAL for me. :/ I now have a perfect cycle of 28 days, ov on day 14. Here goes...
1dpo-ov cramping a little
2dpo-alot of cm
3dpo-alot of cm
4dpo-little cramping, small amount of mwcm
5dpo-fluttery feeling in stomach, little cramping, no cm, gas, very tired
6dpo-Vivid dreams, Hot Flashes, Tender BB's (nips); BBT 97.28, fluttery feeling in stomach,
stuffy nose, very tired, frequent urination (but I drank alot cuz I was really thirsty) cm is a little watery
7dpo-BBT 96.8 > very emotional...thinking AF is coming..cramping, tender BBs
8dpo- BBT 97.68!!! (implantation dip yesterday??) big time gas, so tired i took a nap, more cramping (feels like af aaaaarrrgggghhh!! ) dry mouth! hungry. $ store BFN....stupid, I know. SUPER EMOTIONAL
9dpo- BBT 97.71 FRER BFN sooooo stinkin emotional! had to go back to bed for 4 hours. nauceous just don't feel good. cramping on right side.

Well, whadya think? Do I stll have a chance...or is it looking like a not so much month?
Please don't be mean. I am super sensitive....I cried at a commercial today of 2 cell phones that had a baby cell phone. RIDICULOUS! So, just try to be gentle with me

[Twoboysmaybemore]

There is always a chance. A BFN on 9 dpo doesn't count you out! While I am not so good at following my own advice, I try not to put too much stock in the early symptoms. In my case I have had symptoms that led to BFPs and then had the exact same feelings/symptoms only to have BFNs and AF. So, there is certainly still hope for a BFP!!!

Congrats on the TR and if it makes you feel any better I would probably cry at a baby cell phone too. How adorable is that?!

[butterfly68]

There is always a chance

good luck!

[TrustinGod4Babies]

Thanks!! My spirits are up today...I took a test this am and it was neg...but for a second I saw a faint line as the urine crossed the window...then it disappeared.????? So, I'm taking that as maybe a sign that its just too early, like you say!! I'll be sure to let you's know if I get the bfp...i'm waitin till Sunday which is 12dpo.

[TrustinGod4Babies]

ok...here's an update.

10dpo- BBT 97.84 FRER BFN ( i saw a faint line as urine went across, then it disappeared ) I think I'll wait till Sunday to test again. Queasy. Hungry.
11dpo- 97.27 I guess that means AF is on the way. BBs look weird. Increased CM!!! and cervix feels soft and high!! BB's tender again. Very emotional. :/ Bad cramps all day
12dpo- FRER FMU BFN....BBT 97.27. I've given up.

FRER says ALL people that tested 4dt tested positive. I didn't...so, I guess it's over this month. I wonder why I am going through all of this with these symptoms. Do you think this is normal after a TR? It's way too intense! UGH

[butterfly68]

I dont know. I get pg like symptoms all the time before AF but I still have my tubes tied.

did your dr tell you the odds of coneiving after a tr? It may take awhile for your body to adjust.

I know I've had so many changes since my TL, maybe there are hormonal/cycle changes with a TR as well?

You should post this in the main board section, I am pretty sure there are 1 or 2 ladies there who have had TR.

good luck!

[TrustinGod4Babies]

Well, today is 13dpo...symptoms are dropping off, but my temp is still high...and I was nauseous this morning, with a nasty headache. I wonder if that was just sinus pressure though. Tomorrow is the last day of this cycle and I have had BFN everyday. :/ Still praying there's a chance.

ALOT of women have problems after a TL. Actually that is the second biggest reason for getting a Reversal. (second to wanting more babies, of course). I really hope my body settles down if that's what's going on. I never had this before. I usually just Cramped a couple days before period. No other symptoms.

Thanks for your imput... I'm so glad there are other women who can help during this 2WW...not just to understand what's going on with my body, but also encouragment and support during this emotional time.