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This is my first post, and I'm turning to you because I feel like I am losing my mind. My DH and I decided to start trying in June, so I stopped taking bcp then. Silly me, I thought we would get pregnant as soon as we stopped preventing it.
Six months later... I have been totally regular since coming off the pill (30 day cycle with 5 days of bleeding - exactly what it was before I went on the pill many years ago). I also always see 1-2 days of dark brown spotting before AF. This month I was due last Tuesday (Dec 4), which would have been 12dpo. We timed it pretty good this month, so I thought there was definitely a chance that it could work this month. Tuesday came and went with absolutely no signs of AF, so naturally I assumed I was pregnant!
I tested last Tuesday and got a BFN. I thought for sure it was just to early and I would see a BFP in a few days. Tested again last Friday (Dec 14) and got a BFN. Waited through the weekend and tested again this morning (Dec 10, 18dpo)... another BFN. Actually 2, one with CBdigital and one with CVS brand. Totally stark white BFNs, all with FMU. I called my doctor (have actually only met her once) and she won't even meet with new patients until they are 10 weeks pregnant. They said wait another week (!) and test again. I wonder, for how many weeks they will say that??
In the meantime, I am literally obsessing over this. I have not told anyone, not even DH. He would freak out with excitement and I can't bear to see his face if this is nothing. I feel really alone and just want someone to talk to about this. I am totally demotivated to do anything because I can't concentrate on anything else.
I know from reading that the first thing people assume is that I O'd late, but I don't think so. I am really sure I am pregnant. Not a ton of symptoms, but abnormal stuff for me - hard/sore nipples, tugging pain in my uterus area, frequent urination. No nausea whatsoever, though.
I am a healthy 30 year old, same as DH. I believe in my heart that I am pregnant. I also am terrified that I'll be in limbo forever (or even just a few more days).
Hi little tank,
you could be one of them cases like I have seen on the tv show I didnt know I was pregnant they were preg the whole time even tho tests came back neg. and as far as your dr drs dont know everything let me tell you my story I went to the dr and talked to him to see what else I could do to get pregnant he was so rude to begin with he looked at me and said I can tell you what you problem is just by looking at you he told me told me that I was too fat to get pregnant and i would have to lose weight in order to get pregnant I am a bigger girl but not that big I was embarrased and to make matters worse I had started my period that day so I was emotional (I remember that day so well cause it was mine and my husbands anniversary) and of course after we left I cried well I went in 21 days later and had an ovulation test (and a preg test just to be on safe side) and the preg test was neg and I had to wait on the results for the other test cause they send it off. well few days later they called me told me I wasnt ovulating and they wanted to start me on metformin so I took it for abt 3 or 4 days and I was sitting on my bed my lower back was hurting I was hot and crampy I just felt like something wasnt right so I took a test and a there it was A BIG FAT POSITIVE. I loved going back to the dr and shoving it in his face I was like HA too fat huh well look at me now lol haha so you do what you think is right and when you call back make an appt tell them you aint got a period yet and you want them to check you see whats going on dont mention pregnancy then you can tell them that when you get there because when I make an appt they tell me same thing when its contains to pregnancy just told them my periods were messed up and need to be checked see whats going on but I wish you the best of luck