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  #1  
September 17th, 2007, 11:39 AM
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I went in to the doctor today because I was having a little bit of brown spotting last night and this morning.
She put in a speculum to check me out and didn't see any active bleeding. But then she did an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. The baby had not grown any from the last u/s (10 days ago). All she could see was a fetal pole and she said it was too small to measure. It actually seemed smaller to me than it was last time.
She said she was 100% sure this is a miscarriage.
If it doesn't happen naturally before Friday, I will probably have a D&E then but I told her I want an u/s done beforehand just for my own piece of mind.

After the exam and u/s I've been having red spotting. I don't know if it it's from the exam or if my body is already started to miscarry.





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September 17th, 2007, 11:41 AM
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I am so sorry!
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September 17th, 2007, 11:48 AM
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September 17th, 2007, 11:48 AM
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Oh, Shannon, nooooo! I am so sorry. I had so much hope that everything would be okay because you had gotten through every obstacle so far. I know I can't say anything that will make you feel better. I am just so sorry that you won't be able to have your baby. I know we were all hoping that would not be so. I'm sorry. Please tell us if you need anything.
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September 17th, 2007, 11:49 AM
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September 17th, 2007, 11:51 AM
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OH SHANNON!!!!!!!!!!! I've been where you are sweetie, and if you need anything let me know. Take all the time you need to grieve and dont let anyone tell you that you should be over it

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September 17th, 2007, 11:56 AM
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Oh Shannon, I am so so sorry, Hun. :dothugs:
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September 17th, 2007, 12:07 PM
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oh gosh! Shannon, I'm so sorry! I really hope that everything turns out okay for you, but if it doesn't we are all here for you. *hugs* sweetie.
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September 17th, 2007, 12:10 PM
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September 17th, 2007, 12:17 PM
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September 17th, 2007, 12:18 PM
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I'm so very sorry. When you're ready, stop by JM's Pregnancy Loss board. That's what brought me to JM; their support is what kept me here.
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September 17th, 2007, 12:27 PM
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I'm so sorry! Take care of yourself.
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September 17th, 2007, 12:33 PM
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September 17th, 2007, 01:10 PM
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September 17th, 2007, 01:36 PM
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I'm so sorry sweetie! I know how bad you're hurting. I agree with mrshowdy, don't let anyone tell you you shouldn't feel exactly what you're feeling. PM me if you need to talk.
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September 17th, 2007, 01:52 PM
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I'm so sorry. *Hugs*
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September 17th, 2007, 01:59 PM
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Oh sweetie I am so sorry. I had a miscarriage in August and can totally relate to how your feeling right now. You have my utmost sympathy and warmest thoughts during this tough time.

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September 17th, 2007, 02:08 PM
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I'm so sorry, Shannon. Take care of yourself.
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September 17th, 2007, 02:09 PM
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i'm so sorry to hear that.
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September 17th, 2007, 05:36 PM
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