[SandyJ]

I've got two months and 1 week until the teen starts college. It really could come sooner and I would be ecstatic! I want to pull my hair out every time DH asks him to do something around the house and he hauls out THE DRAMATIC SIGH as if DH has just asked him to do the most mortally painful thing ever (which is typically interrupting his video game playing). The teenager doesn't sigh at me. He knows better. I'm just sick of the way he disrespects his Dad. DH got fed up last night too and just let him have it. I normally try to referee and I did last night too, but I finally realized that I can't deal with it anymore either. I'm really sick of his put upon attitude when he is the furthest person from put upon in this household. I'm staying out of it, right after I write the teen a long email politely suggesting he adjust his attitude before the ***** really hits the fan.

What pisses me off the most was that during the yelling match yesterday, Ava was upset and crying. I don't want this drama around her.

[mylene169]

You're right, you don't need that crap around Ava. I wish you strength during the next two months and 1 week! I think sending an email is actually a good idea. He will have time to read and process what you are saying to him without interrupting you or feeling too defensive.

[Nekinna2402]

:hugs:

[*Cyndee*]

Wow, he's in for a wake up call if he thinks it's exasperating to have to do anything when your meals and room and board are provided for you.

[tamaranwes]

I love how you label him "the teenager." That really does explain it all! I think the email is good idea too. When I get overly pissed at Dh I email him so I can take as long as I need and get all my thoughts out with out him becoming defensive. Just a few more months to go, then he'll come bug you at work!