I have a little diva. You have to let her choose.

I pick two shirts, and let her choose one, then usually the same with pants, unless the shirt has matching pants and she's being nice.
Bailey always does her arms, in fact you can't help. I put her shirts on her head, then she pulls down and does the arms. Pants, you have to hold out in front of her, and she steps into them.
She pulls all socks off, and gets mad when wearing foot pjs and tights bc she can't get them off her feet. But loves shoes and is constantly wearing someone's other than hers as she can't get her own on yet.