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Parker Ryan's birth story (may be a bit long)


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June 8th, 2009, 03:07 PM
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So sorry I havent been on much ladies. Its been crazy adjusting to the new baby. I went in for my induction at 12am on June 3rd. When I went in to the dr the Monday before they were estimating about a 6 to 8 hour delivery. Fine by me. Well they lied! First off I get to the hospital and get checked in and they tell me they are busy and I need to wait in the waiting room for them to call me to my room! WTH? I obliged. Then about 1:30 they finally come and get me and start hooking me up to the monitors. About 2:30 they get the pitocin going. I was hanging in there pretty well till about 5;30. I was thinking surely I am making some progress with contractions this strong...um NO still at a 3cm! So we talked about going ahead and getting the epidural going so I could be more relaxed and they would up the pitocin and get me going plus the dr was coming in about 6:30 to break my water. So about 6am I get the epidural. It wasnt as bad as I was expecting but still scary being my first time. Got my water broken at 6:30 and was still hanging at a 3cm. I got my catheder (sp?) in and tried to relax. Well I shot from a 3 to a 5 in less than 2 hours! Which they had turned the pitocin way up to get me going. Finally about noon I was about a 6 or 7 but Parker's heartrate kept staying above the 200. They said it was fine but after about 15-20 minues she called my dr and he said to lower the pitocin to get his heartrate down. So they turned it down and that slowed me down again but at least his heartrate went down. When I finally got to get it turned back up about 2pm I started feeling my contractions and was crying and in pain. So I got another shot in my epidural to help. That didnt help so I wound up getting 2 other doses PLUS a shot of fentanyl to help the pain. FINALLY i was feeling good and started feeling pressure. By this time i was a 9 and the nurse said she felt like by 3 I would be a 10. Sure enough at 2:55 she checke me and I was a 10. She called the dr who said it would be ok to push and I started pushing at 3pm! Well they were thinking it would take awhile for me to push and they were wrong again. The nurse tells me she sees hair and then realizes 1. she didnt have the delivery table set up and 2. it was time to page the dr. So I had to stop pushing for about 5 minutes until the dr came in and got suited up! I felt bad for Parker being stuck there and I wanted to push so bad! Finally at 3:27 pm my little boy was laid on me and we met for the first time. I bawled my eyes out! I couldnt believe it! They let me and some family see him before taking him to NICU to check him lungs because he was grunting and having trouble breathing. (he checked out fine) and we finally got to see him about 2 hours later. I wound up having to be cut 2 times and the dr called it a 2nd degree.I was upset about that but if you saw my childs head you would see why! lol He came out with the worst alien/conehead looking because I had to stop pushing. ALthough he looks great now and you could never tell it. I also had lots of bleeding afterwards because my uterus wouldnt contract so had to get a whole nother bag of pitocin to helpme contract and stop bleeding. So all in all I did NOT have quite the pleasant experience everyone else did. I was in hard horrible labor for 13 hours and experienced pain unlike any other. I know it was all worth it but sheesh! not at all the experience I was expecting. At least I didnt have to push long because I was wore out! But now my baby boy is here and words could never express the love I felt for him as soon as I met him! But believe me its going to be a long while before he has a sibling!

As soon as I get the chance I will add pics to the board so you can all see him!
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June 8th, 2009, 03:31 PM
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Aww!

Most babies have that conehead appearance.

Congrats!
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June 9th, 2009, 03:52 AM
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Congrats! I'm sorry you didn't have quite the experience you wanted but hes here and healthy! I'm sure hes just perfect!
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June 9th, 2009, 06:47 AM
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Congrats. Both my little ones have had the coneheads. My first more so than my second.
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June 9th, 2009, 06:50 AM
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Congrats, hun. Sorry you didn't get the l&d experience you wished for. But glad everything is good w/Parker.
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June 9th, 2009, 02:28 PM
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Great story. Sorry it didn't go quite how you expected. Thanks for sharing!
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June 9th, 2009, 02:47 PM
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im glad u both came out of it ok!!! and dont worry with my first i had to wait 40 mins 4 the dr o get there and with my 2nd i had to wait 15.... ash came out with3 pushes and cam in 1 and a half
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June 9th, 2009, 07:23 PM
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i'm sorry, des. im sorry that was your first experience and now you're reluctant to have any more any time soon.

but, you have a beautiful baby boy to show for it. congrats to you!
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