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November 1st, 2009, 06:47 AM
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Do you make checks with SO to make sure he is still on the timeline?
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November 1st, 2009, 04:01 PM
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All the time  Actually, today he didn't pull out and he wasn't wearing a condom, EEEK! Luckily, my period just ended so I *shouldn't* be able to get pregnant. I couldn't believe he did that and afterward he said the same thing LoL!
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November 1st, 2009, 05:29 PM
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Err.. Lisa? lol. Though it's less likely to get pg right after your AF, sometimes women ovulate early and even during/at the end of AF... FYI?
I haven't since we set a 'timeline' before then I brought it up often just trying to see WHEN he wanted to TTC. I think maybe as we get closer I might. Otherwise I might just wait until our 2nd anniversary and say 'ok it's baby time!' lol!
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November 1st, 2009, 05:35 PM
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We are so far right on schedule for an August/September 2010 FET (Frozen Egg Transfer). Now, the number of eggs is what is up for debate. I want twins next but DH only wants 1 at a time. We'll probably end up just doing 1, and for the last pregnancy, do 2 and hope for twins then. I wanna be done having my kids by 32.
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November 1st, 2009, 06:09 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by appleofdanielseye
Err.. Lisa? lol. Though it's less likely to get pg right after your AF, sometimes women ovulate early and even during/at the end of AF... FYI?
I haven't since we set a 'timeline' before then I brought it up often just trying to see WHEN he wanted to TTC. I think maybe as we get closer I might. Otherwise I might just wait until our 2nd anniversary and say 'ok it's baby time!' lol!
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Oh I know, that's why I typed *shouldn't* like that because it's always a possibility  I didn't even realize he did that until AFTER we were done and then it was obvious. I wasn't mad but more shocked then anything. He now has the condoms right under our mattress so he won't have to go get one across the room
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November 2nd, 2009, 02:29 PM
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Thats when I ovulate the last day of my period. At least when I got preggo with the 3 kids I have, lol. I just talked to So the other night so yea ZI make sure hes still thinking about it. And sperm lives 5-7 deays! I see your ticker says cd 9! Your gonna be here in 2 weeks saying your af is late!
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November 2nd, 2009, 04:17 PM
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Well I usually O on CD 22 and that's 2 weeks from now so who knows but I REALLY hope AF isn't late this month
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November 3rd, 2009, 06:08 AM
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Hah, I check in all the time to see what he's thinking. He changes his mind about "life" so much. One day he wants to get married tomorrow...the next day he wants to wait two years. lol
We're pretty much on the same page though. I just like to have extra re-assurance. I like to "plan" everything.
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November 3rd, 2009, 07:03 AM
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Originally Posted by LisanAndy
Oh I know, that's why I typed *shouldn't* like that because it's always a possibility I didn't even realize he did that until AFTER we were done and then it was obvious. I wasn't mad but more shocked then anything. He now has the condoms right under our mattress so he won't have to go get one across the room |
Yes well he still has to stop to slip one on lol, hopefully he remembers that! I would be shocked too, but in my case shocked excited. Unfortunately in the past DH has always remembered to withdrawl as if it were second nature. And now that I'm on BCP he still does! I think he's paranoid about having a baby right now  where as I wouldn't mind at all a little 'slip up'.
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November 3rd, 2009, 10:28 AM
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no cause there isn't one. Hes the reason we will even be having a 3rd anyway
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November 3rd, 2009, 01:21 PM
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Nah. He gets annoyed when I talk about it. So we don't
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November 3rd, 2009, 03:46 PM
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Ha, all the time. Seems like every few days. We always seem to waffle between within the next 12 months and then a couple of years. We did just find out that SIL and her husband are planning on trying in February so we'll more than likely wait until after they have one, may seem selfish but I wouldn't want anything taken away from our first pregnancy because someone else is pregnant. I don't worry about my parents but MIL definitely favors one grandchild right now so I couldn't imagine two of us pregnant at the same time.
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November 9th, 2009, 09:12 AM
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We talk about it every few days too. We both have baby fever so bad that at times he says let's just start trying now! Lol.
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November 9th, 2009, 01:42 PM
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nope. we both know what we have to get to in order to be able to afford IVF so there is no point in even discussing it until our finances are in order.
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November 10th, 2009, 12:39 PM
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Lol we have this discussion like everyday!!! He doesn't really wanna wait, but then I tell him all the reasons we should n he agrees... Then the next day we bring the conversation up again!!! Lol we keep changing our minds...
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November 12th, 2009, 11:04 PM
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Yep. We have to remind ourselves WHY we are waiting because otherwise I forget and want to TTC sooner.
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November 13th, 2009, 07:35 AM
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Well, I seriously doubt I'm pregnant from that little slip up. My temps are still below ovulation temps, my chest is more sensitive, and I'm noticing fertile CF now... Phewww! I think I'm going to O very soon so no slip ups or unprotected sex for me until 4 days after O
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