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July 12th, 2011, 08:27 AM
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(not so patiently) WTTC
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Southern CA
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Does coming on JM make waiting harder? or easier?
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July 12th, 2011, 08:30 AM
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Happy mama to 3!
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Location: Southwest MI
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It depends on the day! lol
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July 12th, 2011, 09:56 AM
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Objection!!!
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: Toronto, ON
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Harder. The only thing that made it easier was to totally disconnect from anything children, and setting the TTC date. Now I'm totally at peace with waiting 
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July 12th, 2011, 10:19 AM
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Platinum Supermommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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Harder, definitely but I love it here.
Right now, the wait in general isn't too hard, since my son is only 7 weeks and dealing with an infant and 2 year old isn't easy but I know I will get to a point where being pregnant is all I want and it will be hard every time I see a pregnancy ticker.
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July 12th, 2011, 10:41 AM
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The Truth is out There
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I think it helps, but there are some days that nothing makes it easier.
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July 12th, 2011, 11:26 AM
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Love my Daughter & Son
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Quote:
Originally Posted by blessdmommy
It depends on the day! lol
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Yah I agree! but I would say mostly easier! U ladies keep me grounded
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July 12th, 2011, 11:41 AM
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Easier. It give me an outlet for my baby fever. If I were to tell DH about it, he would probably try to pressure me into TTC, and THAT would be hard. Plus, he's a guy. They don't fully get it, nore do they fully understand.
I don't have a lot of friends outside of online that know when we will be TTC or our plans. We sometimes compare baby fever, but the one is kinda NTNP (I think) unless she is just using w/d... She did try FAM with w/d for a while, but I guess they just do w/d no matter the time, so she just gave up on the charting.
Oh, I do have to add, it does make it a LOT harder when I see the Oops pregnancies or the NTNP, etc. I try to ignore those posts, but the titles are still there, and then I just get depressed.
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July 12th, 2011, 12:49 PM
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Sophia's Mommy!
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Definitely depends on the day, but I think it helps because I'm becoming more prepared for what's to come. I've learned so much since joining JM! So I say easier for the most part.
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July 12th, 2011, 01:23 PM
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We're Complete <3
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Location: Dover, DE
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Harder, especially when I go lurk at my DDC. 
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July 12th, 2011, 03:45 PM
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sidecars are for *****es
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Join Date: May 2010
Location: Colorado
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both depends on the day sometimes its nice to talk to you ladies about how much i want a baby because austin will just then lets have one. but its also harder cause i see cute babies everywhere and i know i cant start till i finish school
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July 12th, 2011, 06:09 PM
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New Mommy & Veteran Aunt
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Location: Northern AZ
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Depends on how I'm feeling and what most of the topics and posts are about that day.
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July 12th, 2011, 06:33 PM
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(not so patiently) WTTC
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Southern CA
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I think it would be easier for me if we had a "set" TTC date. Right now it feels like I don't have anything to look forward to
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July 12th, 2011, 06:36 PM
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New Mommy & Veteran Aunt
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Northern AZ
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Quote:
Originally Posted by AshleyNR
I think it would be easier for me if we had a "set" TTC date. Right now it feels like I don't have anything to look forward to |
Ashley read my mind 
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July 13th, 2011, 06:30 AM
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Member
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Join Date: Jul 2011
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I think a bit of both. Easier cause I know am not the only one here waiting, and harder cause baby fever just spikes whenever am on JM 
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