After some long talks with dh this weekend and some self-reflection, I think it is in my best interest to pull back from the WTTC forum a little bit. We still are WTTC, but right now I'm finding that the forum is upping my baby fever instead of helping me manage it (which, lest anyone take that the wrong way, is a result of my own way of processing and not a commentary on the ladies here

you're all wonderful and WTTC is one of my favourite forums in terms of support and friendliness!).
I would like to be able to focus more on the *right now* than I currently am.
I may still pop in from time to time, but I probably won't be posting very often here for a little while.

I wish everyone the best of luck in their WTTC (and TTC, if some of you move into that stage before I'm ready to come back) journeys!