for infant baby:
a sling
a cosleeper
a carseat
breast pump (but no bottles

)
cloth diapers (I hope)
some sort of seat. Not sure if I want a swing, or a bouncer.
sleepers
a few clothing items
blankets depending on the season
boppy
for bigger baby:
crib
exercaucer
toys
crib bedding (which I will make)
clothes
more cloth diapers
bottles
baby bullet (for homemade baby food)
bigger car seat (I intend to rear face for several years)
stroller (unless it is winter, then I will hold off)
I'm not going to go crazy for baby. As dh said "half the crap we got for Reme he never used, or hated." I will buy as needed as we go along, rather than a whole bunch of stuff at once.