[Banned-purlyrocker]

I'm gonna try for short and sweet but well....grab a snack, get comfy.

First things first, I'm a legally married (in some states, canada and few other countries) to my lovely wife/partner/sexy lady lover aka Molly (what I call her for short). It was a lovely little suprirse wedding. We went to New York with our parents, her brother, and our closest friends. Stayed in a family member's vacation home and surprised everyone one night while "going out to dinner" with a surprise "oh before dinner we're gonna get married!", it was great. And I have to say, one of the least stressful weddings I've ever attended.

Second, my wonderful cousin who did move in with us. If you'll recall she was 15, knocked up, and out on her rear. Well, a few days after she arrives she comes to me one afternoon telling me she thinks something is wrong, she's cramping and she's bleeding. I get her to the hospitial, and we find she's having a miscarriage. Having dealt with my own losses in the past I was, sort of able to guide her. She had some problems with the fact she didn't feel she was feeling the right level of sadness. She felt some sadness, but mostly felt relief. She's been seeing a counsler since, and is doing very well. She'll continuing her stay with us and has been doing lovely in school. She has friends, she's a straight A student, and we're raising a teenager. Which is terrifying.

Third, I'm a college graduate! Again! I finally, finally, finised my PhD work. I'm so thrilled to be done! And now I'm Dr. Sadie! Which just sounds funny to me! I also got a teaching position at a local community college starting in the fall! Wa-hoo! And I'm gonna be taking a few classes myself...again....there's a certificate program I'm intreasted in. I'm a life-long student. It's why I married a teacher.

Fourth, and I think final, we've had every test ran on me (and our sperm donor) under the sun and haven't found much of any reason we've had trouble getting pregnant. My progesteran levels were a little low, so we've gotten those better. Otherwise, not much wrong with us. So we're trying some natural way to increse fertility and we'll start trying in June! I'm excitied! I wish I had some label for why we're having troubles, but I'm staying positive. We know I can get pregnant, we're fixing what we think is the reason I can't stay prengnat, we will have a bub to wub!

Ok, four paragraphs. Not bad for me.

[cocosmumNco]

aww congrates hun everything seems to be going great for you. your wedding sounds great.
wow a dr very good well done you and i'm so pleased all tests have come back well hopefully that means you will get a bfp soon.
i'm so sorry about your cousins m/c but maybe its for the best and she can have a shot at making a life for herself now and its great she has you to support her.
please do stick around hun its abit quiet on here at mo but it will pick up.

[Banned-HPnerd]

Congrats on your marriage, hun. My partner, Bonnie, and I entered in to a civil partnership recently. Good luck TTC!