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July 27th, 2012, 11:02 AM
navywifey2003's Avatar Home Birth Mama
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How does your DH/SO feel about WTTC? Do they want to TTC sooner than you or are you both on the same page?

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July 27th, 2012, 11:04 AM
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DH is in agreement on the timing but he's not particularly happy about how quickly its approaching.
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July 27th, 2012, 11:20 AM
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Actually, my ticker says we will be TTC in a month because it is what HE wants. I am hoping we "miss" the egg a couple times before we get pregnant. But I understand his reasons (even if I don't really agree) and I can compromise on starting a little earlier. It's not a big deal for me either way, but he wanted to start in September instead of December. So, we will start. We are pretty good about coming to an agreement about these things.
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July 27th, 2012, 12:18 PM
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My husband is ready now and I am just not there yet. Im just not ready for Everett to not be the baby.

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July 27th, 2012, 12:52 PM
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We're in agreement.

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July 27th, 2012, 03:45 PM
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Had I had my way I would have kept ttc after my last loss in Mach 2011.
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July 28th, 2012, 07:46 AM
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He would TTC now, if I were willing. I had a rather traumatic loss on New Years Eve and haven't been able to even think of TTC without feeling panicky.

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July 28th, 2012, 11:00 PM
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We are in agreement

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July 29th, 2012, 05:30 PM
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Sorta. He says that he wants to be happier with his job situation, but he doesn't know exactly what that means. He's a little more hesitant to take the plunge than I am, but we are on the same page about needing money to be sorted out (since I lost my job) before going ahead. We'll get there eventually, lol.

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July 29th, 2012, 06:04 PM
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We are in total agreement and on the same page. Both of us want to spend time together before we TTC- we want to enjoy each other, travel a bit, etc.
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July 30th, 2012, 02:51 PM
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DH was sceptical at first, it will be his first and my 2nd! He originally said December but gave me a lovely shock last month and said lets go for it now.. Just got to wait for that BFP now
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August 1st, 2012, 07:12 PM
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I think we're on the same page. I would like a fall baby, but he is a farmer - so that kind of annoys him...but ideally my baby will be born after the black friday (not for shopping, so we can go to the husker game) or right before so she's tiny enough that being in the moby wrap all day is no big deal We go to the Husker/hawkeye football game every year so as long as its not born THAT day, we're good (unless it's in the evening, after the game )

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August 2nd, 2012, 01:28 PM
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Now we are on the same page, up until a few days ago though it was because he wasn't ready.

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August 2nd, 2012, 02:55 PM
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DH drives me nuts with this so I'm taking over

He wants more, yet doesn't want to have them when he's older (he's 28). He knows I want more and yet he's always like, "Uh uh uh" whenever I bring it up. Or he's like, "Ok lets do it now" (and being serious). He is just so dang wishy washy. The man doesn't understand planning for children. He thinks if there's ever an oops then there's a pregnancy, there's no need to "plan" for such things. GAH!

Although we don't really use any protection other than pull out and I haven't gotten pregnant in 3 years from this he did comment about a month ago that maybe we should actively TTC to see if there is something wrong with me.

He drives me nuts. But I love him. I'm hoping Dec/Jan we'll be ttc

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September 9th, 2012, 05:49 PM
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My hubby is cool about WTT. We both know that now isn't the right time.

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September 10th, 2012, 07:14 AM
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I'm in a strange situation where DH wants whatever I want. He has said he doesn't care how many or when. He loves them, and we'll get by. It's difficult because it's all me that has to wait! He knows when I've picked, and he's excited, but knowing I could just say "Hey, let's just start tonight." makes me crazy! I have to be responsible! Booo!
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September 10th, 2012, 02:17 PM
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Deep down I know he is going to be having another child mostly for me. For him he could take it or leave it. Waiting does not bother him at all and I am sure he could wait many more years. I wish he was more excited like me but I guess that is most men for you.

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September 11th, 2012, 06:23 PM
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My bf is ntnp ( or maybe secretly ttc - as he sometimes pulls out too late ) and I am wttc. I am still nursing my 7 month old ds so it might take a while before we actively ttc.

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