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I've been a long time member of JM and have two great kiddos, a DS (5) and a DD (3). Over the past year, I've gone back and forth...back and forth....about having a third baby. I have PCOS and just recently stopped ovulating on my own. I'm pretty sure that I could conceive on Clomid, but that would take an affirmative act on my part (meaning, we could not just "wait and see what happens" like we are now). My husband would probably prefer to just stick with two, but is willing to try for another baby if I decide I really can't live without it.
I've visited the large family board....I've visited the Not Trying, Not Preventing board.....I'm honestly having the worst time finding others who are in my situation, so I thought I'd see if you could help? Are any of you waiting to conceive because you're not sure or have most of you decided to try to conceive and are just waiting for more idealic circumstances? Is there a place on JM where I'm more likely to find others in my situation? Some days I swear that there is nothing I want more than another baby and I can list 15 reasons why. Other days, look around and am particularly grateful for my amazing life and feel like I will be risking disrupting it beyond repair if I bring another baby into our family. I just don't know what to do. Any advice on how to make this decision?
Hi Shannon! I'm JoLina and I have 1 baby boy, Matthew who is almost 4 months old now. I'm sorry your having such a crazy time trying to decided if you want another baby or not. I know its a big decision and not one to be taken lightly. For the most part all the ladies on this board have already decided we want another baby and are just waiting for certin circumstances to actualy start TTC. Your more then welcome to hang around and see if we could be a fit for you! I'm sorry your having trouble finding a good board to join!