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Hello! I was here on and off awhile ago, then in ttc from September 2012 until February, then I was in the March 2014 board, and now I am back.
I had an oops pregnancy and found out on June 30th and confirmed with a + blood test on July 2nd. On Sunday while on vacation I woke up to bleeding. I called my OB's office Monday and when I came back into town yesterday afternoon I headed straight for her office to have a BETA test done. I got the results last night and I did lose the baby because my hcg was already 0.8. It dropped so quickly!
Having the loss was actually a good thing for several reasons...
1. I won't have to worry anymore about m/cing due to all the stress that I am under
2. It would have added more stress to my already stressful year
3. I am down over 7 pounds from before the baby was conceived
4. It got my dh to rethink that maybe he does want to try one more time for a girl. He even said to me last night I'm going to not get a vas done for awhile and you lose weight and once Ty is back home we will work on completing our family. Then he said it would be nice to have a little girl in our lives.
So things are coming together in some way or another.
About Ty he has been in a hospital since June 14th and out of the home since June 11th because when he gets mad he gets violent. He will throw things at us, swear, yell, destroy stuff and well this last time he got mad when he was asked to clean off the table and was about to break his glasses and my oldest went to grab them from him and he kicked Trent in the gut twice, Then ran down the hall picked up Len my 3 year old and through him across it and his head hit the linen closet door handle and he fell to the floor and didn't move for a minute or 2. It happened so fast there was no stopping it.
So we go to court every 2 weeks for this and it looks like Ty will be out of the home for the next 3-6 months.
Simone SAHM to 5 boys Trenton 21, Tyler 19, twins Peyton and Eli 9, & Lennox 6 and 5 s (1992, 2008, 2011, 2013, & 2015)