sorry I am a little late
I'm Rebekah engaged to Shane, we have been together 3.5 years also and are getting married september 24th of this year

we were just TTC for a few months but I just recently started BCP again, we are waiting because life is a little stressful right now and DF wants to see his kids growup and be in their lives. ( he feels he works too much right now, but I told him he will always work that much

) other than that, we are pretty ready right now. And we are BOTH the clucky ones in the relationship !