I just started off doing what I felt was right. I didn't realize there was a name for the type of parenting that I was doing for Devan until one of my close friends called me an "attachment parent." She also called me other names (lovingly!) and teased me (she's very much not an AP mama, ha). So, I looked on JM to see if there was an AP area and there was

And it fits my parenting style perfectly!