I have yet to find a single AP mom at my current location. I do belong to a mom's group, but if I was here long term I wouldn't continue going. The last meeting had me feeling like a freak of nature since I was the only one who didn't do CIO of some kind, who still BFs, who coslept, who BWs, etc, etc, etc. We're moving in March and I've found a couple of BWing groups an hour away. I'm hoping where there are BWers there are APers.