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First triamester for. Beyond, only in extreme circumstances.
Should be 18. If someone can get drafted and killed at 18 in war, they should be able to drink.
Hard to say. Moderate. I try to look at all sides of an issue.
not sure what this is
Hmm... I'm not exactly sure what this is. If it is that all kids should be entitled to pre-k then sure. If it requires them to go to pre-k, that should be up to the parents to decide.
For. I had severe complications from chicken pox that I am still dealing with today. One of my aunts is also paralized from polio and has nerve damage. She needs help doing most of her daily activities. I wouldn't mind a modified schedule.
not sure what this is
legalization of marijuana
Universal Health care
Have trouble with one. I believe that everyone should recieve health care but I can also see the problems with the system that is being implanted.
"performance pay" for teachers
Well I don't exactly want to go to war but if it is absolutely necessary. I don't support the current war.
Methods of birth control
Whatever works best for each individual couple.
How many kids people should have
Hmm this one is hard. I do have a concern that the world's population just hit 7 billion and what environmental impact this could have in the future. However, if we limited everyone now, social security could be a nightmare in the future. We may have dug ourselves into a hole with this one.
I eat meat but I try my best to support grass fed beef and free range chicken companies. I would like to go vegetarian in the future but it's not possible for me right now.
For the most part against. However, I don't mind people such as Ted Bundy or John Wayne Gacy getting fried nor do I have any sympathy for them.
Fertility treatments/Assisted reproduction
Fine by me
For, everyone should have the right to die with dignity. But I believe only they can make that choice and that everyone should have a living will that should determine if that is what they want.
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY
Hard one. I don't mind as much if they are here and they work hard (often at jobs that would suck to have) but the ones that are committing serious crimes (murder, abduction) need to be detained. It also isn't fair that many people have to wait to get their Visas and green cards.
An adult should be able to choose their own gender.
Against. This isn't fair to those that have a genuine health problem.
what's wrong with shopping carts?
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast
I want to say against but I'd be a hypocrit because I did that through late elementary school all through high school
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies
against, kids with peanut allergies need to learn to live in a world where people eat peanuts. A no peanut table will work better.
If the mother wants it and doctor oks it, then fine
Government involvement in citizens lives
No No NO!
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves
Hmm... Maybe for kids. ugh this is a hard one.
If it is all cleared by a doctor and the mother's pregnancy is fine, then go for it.
morality wise, I'm against it. I think our culture places too much emphasis on beauty and people, especially women, need to be happy with themselves. The beauty industry disgusts me. I honeslty think people who have had plastic surgery look extremely creepy afterwards. However, it's not my place to tell someone what to do with their body or how to spend their money.
Also, if someone was in an accident and needs part of their face rebuilt, then I am all for it.
Chili (with or without beans)
Chili is awesome
I think it needs reform. It's necessary for so many people but I get frusterated with people who abuse the system.
dress codes for school/office
It's up to the school/office. I personally liked having a uniform for school because I never had to worry about what to wear or whether or not I was in style.
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections
I'd prefer the women to go for vaginal birth but at the end of the day it's her body and her choice.
Well erm... I got sexual pleasure from being spanked so I'm against it.
Children and Pets
Children need to be supervised around pets, especially if they are small. And they need to be taught how to properly handle and care for a pet.
Nursing in Public
Very for. Nursing is very natural and it's oppressive to tell a woman that she can't nurse in public. Especially since it's ok for a man to walk around topless but not for a woman.
Cry it Out
Television and Infants/Toddlers
against. Young kids need to be interacting with their environment.
Caring for your elderly parents
Up to the individual family.
Well I have a diamond engagement ring so...
Fast food? Sure go ahead and eat it.
Not completely sure what this is.
for as long as everyone in the relationship is in the know and fine with it.
Well I'm against telling people what they can and can't put in their movies. Scary movies are often very fun to watch. However, I do think that some go to far, especially those that are in the exploitation category. Cannibal Holocaust had questionable and at times dangerous treatment of the natives involved and I do not like that actual animals were killed on screen. Guinea Pig chronicles was was nothing but a woman being tortued to death in an otherwise pornographic way. A Serbian Film was just disgusting and a bit morally reprehensible. Rape porn films disguised as horror I think are disgusting and extremely sexist. Slasher films with annoying characters that you can't wait to get offed are just dumb. Also, I am against the director treating the actors horribly but that goes for any movie.
Drug testing welfare recipients
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc
It's not my business to tell someone how or what to spend their money on.
I don't support them and I believe that children shouldn't be indoctrinated into religion. I don't mind parents teaching their children religious traditions, but in the end, children should be able to decide for themselves whether or not to follow that religion.
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula
Only if formula is ever found to be dangerous. But then, parents can always hire a wet nurse if that ever is the case.
Up to each family. I won't be doing this.
TTC on assistance
Hard one. I think it is more responsible to wait until you are financially stable before starting a family. If it was a mistake, that is one thing. But purposely trying to concieve I can't say that I support.
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits
I am against the sexualization of young girls and very much against sexy swim suits for children.
Leash backpacks for kids
If they were more about talent, I wouldn't mind. But I hate how they make these young girls go through hours of beauty treatment at their young age. I think it sends a wrong message to them that their most important asset is looks which is just another example of the patriarchy oppressing women. And like the swim suit question, I am against the sexualization of young girls.
TV watching for kids under age 2
I would advise against it, but it's not my place to tell parents what to do with their kids. I don't plan to let my kids watch TV until they are 3. I have seen way to many parents put baby einstein movies on repeat play and stick their kids in front of it all day.
Drinking age It's 18 where I'm from. I agree with that. 21 seems stupid (can vote, and die in war for your country, but can't have a beer? doesn't makes sense to me)
Political stance I tend to lean towards the party that I feel is least likely to screw over our whole country... it changes election to election
Selective Service like a draft? I hope this never happens again, but if absolutely necessary I'd rather have this than lose our sense of freedom
Gay marriage I think that every human being should be give the same legal rights, but the word marriage is sacred to me (even if it's been destroyed by straight people)
Universal pre-k I don't think it can hurt...
Sex education I believe this should start at home and at a very young age (2 or 3) But schools do have a role to play here as well!
Vaccinations I think it's important to make the best decision for your own family. But be prepared to deal with all consequences
Sin Tax For!
legalization of marijuana I just don't see the point....
Universal Health care Very grateful to have it! wouldn't give it up!
"performance pay" for teachers If it means our kids actually learn something in schools then YES!
war I don't know anybody who likes war, but IMO you're a moron if you don't support the soldiers who fight for us!
Methods of birth control Whatever floats your boat... I don't agree with the Plan B pill however.
How many kids people should have As many as they can love and support in all ways!
Vegetarian/eating meatWish I could be the first (I think there would be many benefits) but I love my chicken and steak!) We do buy free range and organic meats though.
gun control It's a great song by the Trews! Also has it's place, but also can't stop everything
death penalty I'm on the fence.... sometimes I think it would be too harsh, and sometimes I think it wou;dn't be harsh enough.
circumcision I always said that I don't have a penis, so I'd let DH decide what would be best... but after doing more research I'm against it.
Fertility treatments/Assisted reproductionIf that's what works for you go for it!
Assisted suicideA tough one... I know if it was me I'd probably want to die, but it would be difficult!
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY Should probably be sent back to the country they came from, to start the legal immigration process if they so choose.... except in cases where the country they came from would surely kill them.
Gender SelectionNot cool.
Fat Tax is this different from sin tax?
Shopping Carts Handy!
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast As a once in a while treat, it's fun! regularly it's a sign of parental neglect
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies Probably saves a few lives. Non allergy families can survive on PB and J on the weekends!
Government involvement in citizens lives Sometimes necessary, sometimes creepy
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves Need to be stricter, especially with children. In some cases, you can help stupid!
Unassisted ChildbirthingIf you can do it go for it! As long as you accept all possible consequences.
Plastic Surgery too expensive!
Chili (with or without beans) Not a fan!
Welfare Has it's place, but is a highly abused system
dress codes for school/office would make a lot of decisions easier every day.
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections I think it's pretty risky... but again if you are willing to accept the consequences
Introducing solidsI want to exclusively breastfeed until around 1 year, but I'm also like babyled weaning. and introducing foods safely (no honey before 1 yr)
Car Seats are critically important. And parents should be fined HEAVILY if not using properly
Children and Pets Should be supervised when together. Can be very positive relationship
Nursing in Public Go for it!
Cry it Out Unnecessary
Television and Infants/Toddlers Infants no, toddlers older than 2: on occasion-when sick, rainy days
Caring for your elderly parents Not in my immediate plans. If you can do it great, but I don't think it can be a responsibility forced on one child
In-N-Out Burger We dont have them here...
Reborn dollsCreepy as all get out!
Homosexual orientation/relationshipsThat's the individuals business
Polyamory So not my thing, but if they are all consenting adults, that's their business.
Scary movies ahh Can't handle at all!
Transcultural adoptionNo different than adopting within your own culture!
Drug testing welfare recipientspretty great idea! But I think they'd get farther doing blood alcohol tests
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc Phone and tv, whatever, but vacations, Pets, vehicles etc.... not cool!
Organized religionsI may not agree with them all, but I always try to be respectful
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula Everyone should do what is best for them
Family beds I think bed sharing can be very dangerous, but I believe that co sleeping has many benefits.
TTC on assistanceIf thats what works for you go for it!
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits I think they are kinda cute, but I worry about proper sun protection. I don't buy the 'pervert' argument. someone with a sick mind would see the same thing with your kids wearing a turtle neck. But I do agree there is a modesty issue, and I don't think little kids need to be that exposed to the sun
Leash backpacks for kidsI think they display a lack of confidence parents have in themseleves and their abilities.
Beauty pageants Setting up children for failure and issues that will take years of therapy to fix!
TV watching for kids under age 2 Against this! Find other activities to interact with your kids, TV under 2 is proven to lead to Adhd and other disorders, and in no way benefits the child.
Abortion - Against, but I have a soft spot for incest and rape victims who become pregnant.
Drinking age- For
Political stance - Changes every election! The lesser of two evils!
Selective Service - Against unless we suffer a shortage that puts us at risk.
Gay marriage - Against religiously, but support those who chose it.
Universal pre-k - For
Sex education - For
Vaccinations - For, one at a time, on a delayed schedule.
legalization of marijuana- Against
Universal Health care - Against
"performance pay" for teachers - For
war - For as long as it's necessary
Methods of birth control - For, even though I'm a Christian
How many kids people should have - As long as I'm not feeding them, I really don't care.
Vegetarian/eating meat - I eat meat but limit beef to certain types.
gun control - For. Maybe need better screenings, but that's all.
death penalty - For.
circumcision - Against routine circumcision.
Fertility treatments/Assisted reproduction - For.
Assisted suicide - Against.
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY - Against. I know most are just looking for a better life, and doing things the legal way is long and costly, but I can't support it.
Gender Selection - Against unless there is a deadly or life-altering reason for it.
Shopping Carts - Put them back, lol (I assume that's what was meant by that!)
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast - Against.
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies - For if there's a severe allergy.
VBACs - For.
Government involvement in citizens lives - Mostly Against.
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves - Mostly for unless it's life style choices.
Unassisted Childbirthing - Against simply because the risk worries me.
Plastic Surgery - For, do whatever you want...
Chili (with or without beans) - WITH beans!
Welfare - For but with stricter monitoring.
dress codes for school/office - For because some people just are too dumb to dress appropriately.
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections - Against, but to each their own.
Introducing solids - This depends on each child, but generally, I raise an eyebrow if they're introduced before 6 months or if they're introduced just to make a baby sleep.
Car Seats - For!!!
Spanking - Against.
Children and Pets - For when adequately supervised.
Nursing in Public - For.
Cry it Out - Against.
Television and Infants/Toddlers - Against unless kept to an hour or less a day.
Caring for your elderly parents - For!
Diamonds - Against.
In-N-Out Burger - For!!
Reborn dolls - Creepy.
Homosexual orientation/relationships - Against religiously, but support them in life.
Polyamory - Against.
Scary movies - For, lol.
Transcultural adoption - For.
Drug testing welfare recipients - For if warranted.
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc - Bugs me.
Organized religions - For in that you can do what you want.
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula - Against.
Family beds - For if done safely.
TTC on assistance - Generally against.
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits - Against.
Leash backpacks for kids - For when needed.
Beauty pageants - Against until 12ish years old.
TV watching for kids under age 2- For if kept under an hour a day.
Currently Temporary Mom to O 8 years ~~ A 4 years L 1 year and K 4 weeks
Abortion Pro choice. I don't have an issue with people who are personally pro life, but I do tend to take issue to people who are politically pro life.
Drinking age It is 18 here and I don't see reason to change that.
Political stance I don't have strong leanings, as far as political parties go (and, I am in Australia) I do vote Greens, even though they are not part of the two party preferred, I just agree with more of their policies than any other political party.
Selective Service No opinion
Gay marriage For. Again, I don't care about people who have a personal issue with it, I have an issue with people who take a political stand against it. You can personally be against something on a spiritual, religious or moral level without banning it for everyone who does not have the same stance as you.
Universal pre-k Not familiar with this
Sex education Pro. Knowledge is power. There is no logic in ignorance.
Sin Tax Against
legalization of marijuana Against for practical reasons. If you legalise marijuana it needs to be regulated as a consumable substance, the same way as tobacco is, the same way alcohol is and so on.
Universal Health care For. We have public health cover here and it is an amazing thing that I am incredibly grateful for.
"performance pay" for teachers Against. Too many variables.
war Necessary evil. I do believe that purpose should be made more common public knowledge, however.
Methods of birth control What about them? Birth control is awesome.
How many kids people should have However many they want and can support.
Vegetarian/eating meat Each to their own. I do take issue to many intensive farming practices, and processing of meat and try to avoid those things. I am pescetarian due to food intolerance and make sure that the seafood I do eat is ethically sourced and not processed junk. However that is my personal choice. I do think that there needs to be more public awareness of "this is where your food comes from" however, and stricter standards of what can be classed as meat and what is really "meat-like substance".
gun control Coming from Australia, for. I don't believe guns are necessary for your average citizen, however I think in terms of America, where I know this issue is sourced from, it is too engrained in culture for that to be reversed in the near future.
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY In terms of actual illegal immigrants, people who come over for a holiday, as an example, and do not leave, I do think there need to be tighter ways of regulating.
In terms of asylum seekers, I think, well, Australia's way of dealing, at least, as it is the onyl way I am familiar with, is atrocious. Asylum seekers are not criminals, it is not illegal to seek asylum.
Gender Selection On the fence. I don't believe it to be harmful however I haven't researched it enough to have formed a decent opinin.
Fat Tax Against
Shopping Carts People have an opinion on these? Pro because they are good to carry large quantities of groceries?
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast Each to their own, I think there is a happy medium. My personal view is that if you are usually eating three good meals a day, a few lollies isn't the end of the world or a treat meal every now and then.
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies Pro. Used to work in a school where parents thought that the bans were stupid and still sent their kids to school with peanut butter sandwiches. I think there is a lot of ignorance in terms of contact allergies and I personally have had to put a 6yr old child in an ambulance because one selfish parent though that their child's like of peanut butter was worth more than another child's life. For the record, peanut butter child touched the anaphylactic child's arm with peanut butter on their hands, the food was not consumed.
VBACs Yeah sure, do what you want.
Government involvement in citizens lives I think that's too broad to comment on properly.
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves Seat belts are good, very pro seat belts.
Unassisted Childbirthing I believe the option should be there.
Plastic Surgery Pro over the age of 18 if not for a medical purpose.
Chili (with or without beans) Yum. Pro chili (is this really a hot topic?)
Welfare Again, too broad.
dress codes for school/office Pro. When you are representing an organisation or institution you must look respectable and look the part.
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections Pro. Your body your choice.
Introducing solids Yep, it's good to introduce solids because, you know, when you grow up you can't really live off milk only. I assume this refers to age though? Whenever it is advised or you feel your child is ready, each child is different.
Car Seats Yep, car seats are good.
Spanking I believe spanking is situational and not 100% good or 100% bad. Too many grey areas.
Children and Pets Pro. Wonderful way to teach responsibility (under supervision) and care and compassion for other creatures, not just other human beings.
Nursing in Public Pro. It's eating.
Cry it Out Each to their own, again, grey areas.
Television and Infants/Toddlers No opinion. I don't believe television is bad as long as it is age appropriate.
Caring for your elderly parents Good idea.
Diamonds Ethically sourced, pro.
In-N-Out Burger Don't know it
Reborn dolls I had to google this. Well, they are good for acting purposes I guess. I do understand the argument in regards to grieving though, I do not see the benefit of anything that hinders or prevents the natural healing process.
Homosexual orientation/relationships Pro, wonderful, the more love in the world the better we are
Polyamory Pro, again, love, good thing
Scary movies If you like them then good for you
Transcultural adoption Pro
Drug testing welfare recipients Anti because I see little benefit to the purpose. Until the government is willing to find rehabilitation and help for people who turn up positive, I will be against it.
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc If you can make the little money you get work that way, then good for you and teach me.
Organized religions Anti, generally. I don't understand the teaching of spirituality, you can't teach it, it needs to be developed within yourself. I don't take issue to people who identify as one religion, however I do take issue to religious institutions influence in politics.
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula Anti
Family beds If you can sleep that way, good on you, we have blanket/sheet, moving and space issues with just two of us.
TTC on assistance Whatever you choose, if you can make it work then fine
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits I don't understand the point, because the top is just going to ride up and be uncomfortable anyway, but I don't have an opinion really.
Leash backpacks for kids If it's going to keep them safe then fantastic. My little brother loved cars when he was a toddler, wanted to run up to them and touch them, I was school age, so I heard and understood all the judgement my mother got for it, but my brother was never run over by a car, there is your benefit.
Beauty pageants Anti, don't see the point. A silly, fickle hobby.
TV watching for kids under age 2 I don't think it's the most harmful thing in the world.
Abortion - I wouldn't do it myself, but I don't think it is my place to tell someone else they can't.
Drinking age - I think it should be raised.
Political stance - Fiscally conservative, socially liberal
Selective Service - Against
Gay marriage - It's just marriage, and I think all humans should be allowed to marry any other human they want to, regardless of gender
Universal pre-k - Against
Sex education - For, I think this is very necessary.
Vaccinations - no opinion
Sin Tax - Against
legalization of marijuana - For
Universal Health care - AGAINST
"performance pay" for teachers - For
war - no opinion
Methods of birth control - Same as abortion, I may not want to use something but it isn't my place to tell someone else they can't use it or choose which one they want to use.
How many kids people should have - I am against a limit, like in China, SO LONG AS they can afford to take care of them without federal aid
Vegetarian/eating meat - no opinion
gun control - Against
death penalty - no opinion
circumcision - no opinion
Fertility treatments/Assisted reproduction - If someone needs it and wants to utilize it, then I'm all for it. We TTC #2 for over 12 years, and if we could afford it, we would have done it.
Assisted suicide - no opinion
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY - Against
Gender Selection - Against
Fat Tax - Against
Shopping Carts - Really? lol I'm all for not having to haul all my goods through the store in my hands. haha! I wish people would quit being lazy and actually put them in the corrals rather than leave then strewn around the parking lot.
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast - Everything in moderation
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies - For, peanut allergies are usually severe, so I see why they would need to do this.
VBACs - no opinion
Government involvement in citizens lives - Against!
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves - FOR!
Unassisted Childbirthing - no opinion
Plastic Surgery - no opinion, if someone wants to make themselves look ridiculous, that is their prerogative.
Chili (with or without beans) - For! I love me some chili!
Welfare - no opinion
dress codes for school/office - For
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections - no opinion
Introducing solids - I think each parent should decide for their child
Car Seats - I think EVERYONE should be in a 5 point harness, including adults, but I think all children should be in a car seat until they are at least 4'9".
Spanking - no opinion
Children and Pets - For!
Nursing in Public - For
Cry it Out - Again, I think each parent should decide for their own child
Television and Infants/Toddlers - Everything in moderation
Caring for your elderly parents - no opinion
Diamonds - no opinion
In-N-Out Burger - no opinion
Reborn dolls - no opinion
Homosexual orientation/relationships - Same as gay marriage
Polyamory - If someone wants to deal with more than one wife, then more power to them (and I wish them luck lol)
Scary movies - For! I love them!
Transcultural adoption - For
Drug testing welfare recipients - FOR!!!
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc - AGAINST
Organized religions - no opinion
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula - no opinion, I think this should be a personal decision
Family beds - no opinion
TTC on assistance - no opinion
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits - no opinion
Leash backpacks for kids - Against
Beauty pageants - no opinion
TV watching for kids under age 2 - Everything in moderation
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Gay marriage against. love you who you love, i just don't believe in recognizing the marriage through the eyes of God.
Universal pre-k eh. for i suppose.
Sex education we need it. BADLY. much much more in schools.
Vaccinations i vaccinate. but i guess i don't really worry if others do or don't.
Sin Tax for. in times of recession, all the sin stocks are booming.
legalization of marijuana eh. i say no, but again not really anything i've taken a hard stance on.
Universal Health care i say yes for those working/working households. i'm not bashing SAHM or anything, i'm talking about those welfare people. i see those people a lot attempt insurance fraud and it's frustrating.
"performance pay" for teachers absolutely. some teachers just phone it in, then wonder why the kids aren't learning.
war eh. historically it can do wonders for an economy, but it breeds hate and many senseless acts of violence that result in innocent deaths happen.
Methods of birth control any and all. i believe in not letting the men control our sexual health.
How many kids people should have i suppose i really haven't thought about it. i don't think people should keep popping out kids to get more state/government assistance, though.
Vegetarian/eating meat do what you feel right.
gun control i strongly support our second ammendment.
death penalty i used to be for until i watched a Werner Hertzog documentary so now i guess its up in the air.
Fertility treatments/Assisted reproduction sure.
Assisted suicide i say yes. if someone is diagnosed with terminal cancer, why should we make them life the reminaing of their life in pain and illness?
Illegal Immigrants *not immigration POLICY if they come to America to better their lives by working and becoming law abiding, then yes. if they're coming but getting paid under the table so that they don't have to file taxes like the rest of us, no.
Gender Selection i saw yes to Shettles (sp?) method of gender creation where you try to make a specific gender, but if it doesn't work then just love what you have.
Fat Tax no
Shopping Carts i almost always return. mostly because i've worked in retail so i know how chasing carts suck.
Kids drinking soda/eating candy/poptarts for breakfast worst idea ever.
Peanut Butter bans in schools for nut allergies with my son having a nut allergy, i say for, for the younger kids but for middle/high school not to. by then they should know what happens if they eat it.
VBACs absolutely. more power to you.
Government involvement in citizens lives no i don't like big brother in my biz.
Seat Belt law/ laws to protect citizens from themselves yes.
Unassisted Childbirthing again, more power to you.
Plastic Surgery eh. if you feel bigger boobs or a narrow nose will change your life then sure.
Chili (with or without beans) omg WITH. this is the most important debate lol
Welfare for, for a certain amount a time, for individuals that pass drug testing.
dress codes for school/office for. keep them boobies covered
Elective C-sections/elective repeat C-Sections i guess i've never understood why someone would do this but your body, your choice, your recovery.
Introducing solids 3-6mo depending on health, etc.
Car Seats i think people should extended rear face, but i must say i did not.
Spanking for after age 3-4. and not as the first resort of punishment. and not punishment for a violent act (hitting, biting etc)
Children and Pets absolutely.
Nursing in Public YESYESYES!
Cry it Out after 12-18mo, yes.
Television and Infants/Toddlers i don't like it, but i am guilty of letting my preschooler do it.
Caring for your elderly parents they cared for you, why not care for them.
Diamonds not a big diamond fan, or jewelry, but one nice one (i.e. engagement ring) is sufficient.
In-N-Out Burger ew.
Reborn dolls kinda creepy
Homosexual orientation/relationships you are who you are, you love who you love.
Polyamory eh. another thing i've never understood but i guess you can't help who you love.
Scary movies love em. but wont let the boys watch until they are atleast 20 lol
Transcultural adoption why not
Drug testing welfare recipients YES.
"Luxuries" on welfare- vacation, designer accessories, upscale phones, TV w/cable, etc um, no. work hard and save your money like the rest of us.
Organized religions i believe it is a great outlet and fills spiritual needs. i believe everyone should have SOME sort of religion.
Mandatory breastfeeding attempts/prescriptions for formula no? why would i want to be forced to BF (i do but still)
Family beds ive done it and its ok but it affects the itimacy of DH and my relationship
TTC on assistance why not
Infants/toddlers in bikini style swim suits NO. but even if i had a daughter she wouldn't be able to wear one until like 30 anyway.
Leash backpacks for kids i have one for Kale, and ive used it a few times. i like it. more for big crowds and when he is done sitting in the stroller but won't hold our hands
Beauty pageants eh. i did them but if i had a daughter she would not do them.
TV watching for kids under age 2 no. but my kids were never really interested that young anyway.