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  #21  
July 31st, 2005, 07:32 PM
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July 31st, 2005, 09:07 PM
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I was just saying what I know about the rules at the ones I know about. And I don't believe SO would ever cheat on me. It is something that we both do and it has no bearing on how we feel toward each other.
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August 1st, 2005, 09:38 AM
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Im not big on my SO going to them and for the most part he doesnt but at the same time Im NOT his mother...he did those things before me when he was single so Im not going to stop him from doing something he is used to doing!
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I don't think that men who go are ALL not satisfied. It's just men like to look at naked woman and what's so wrong with changing the senery? I think if the woman goes with her mate it is alot of fun and can spice up the relationship especially if you relax and have fun!! It's a huge happy moment for some men to see thier woman getting a lap dance by another woman. Or even better learn to do it yourself and strip for your man at home!! just IMO.
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August 4th, 2005, 07:02 AM
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Lovebug I see what your saying! I mean Jake goes but hes not going because hes not happy at home with our intimate or emotional relationship...he likes to look at womans bodies....but hes not out at all those trashy clubs. He thinks a womans body is beautiful and Im not going to be some possesive woman and tell him he can no longer look at playboy and go to strip clubs...Hes a big boy....Now on the other hand if it was to get out of control I would step in but we've been together almost 2 years and hes gone I think 3 times but it may have been 4....Ive never been with him and Im not sure if he would be comfortable with that.....
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August 7th, 2005, 04:28 PM
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LOL!

I tell DH he can go anytime he wants, I also don't need to be so untrusting and possesive of him. I trust him with all my heart and KNOW he wouldn't do such a thing as cheat.

Like someone else said, I'm not his mother, I didn't marry him to change him, I love him for who he is. And when we met, he DID visit strip clubs occasionally.

He has not gone to one since we've been together, but I have encouraged him to go ahead quite a few times.
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August 7th, 2005, 04:32 PM
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I don't nor does my dh care about those types of places. We just are not that type of couple.
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August 11th, 2005, 08:04 AM
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I find this topic rather humorous. First, I'd like to say that my husband isn't into this kind of thing, but if he were to go, he'd want to take me. It's something different. It's like watching porn together, except not. Plus, we both feel the same way. Some strippers aren't actually into drugs, but a lot of them are. We wouldnt go to one unless it was a classier one and only for chits and giggles. We both feel that we wouldn't be interested in someone who has been looked over and over and touched, etc, so it's more for amusement and change of pace. Maybe for an idea to put a removeable pole up in our bedroom. LOL
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August 20th, 2005, 05:42 PM
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ooooooooh its a tricky one.

Probably not a gd thing in my books though lol!!!
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September 3rd, 2005, 10:56 AM
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I dont mind mine going to strip clubs. I just pretend that i do! I always tell him only for special occasions haha But if he asks me before hand i usually allow it. I have no problem with them. The strippers are doing their job. They dont want to sleep with your husband. Plus i know mine and he is cheap! He would never pay the $20 for a lap dance! Ive been to both female and male strip clubs and they are lots of fun. Especially the male ones!! haha
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Plus i know mine and he is cheap! He would never pay the $20 for a lap dance!

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thats how my DH is LOL!

when my DH turned 21, he went to his 1st one with a group of bar friends, the only problem i had with it was he didnt let me know 1st, since then he has gone a few times, i could care less, one of my close friends sister is a stripper, and a wonderful person, i believe they too are trying to make a $ a few weeks after this baby is born i will be going to my 1st strip club, and let me say i am looking forward to it!
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Nope. dh has never been one to like strip clubs, hey, some guys don't, and if he did want to go, I would wonder what I wasn't doing right at home.* I don't see any reason for him to go and personally I think it's kind of degrading to women*
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I completely agree with you.. luckly my fiancee has no interest in going to a strip club!!
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my man doesn't really like the strip club scene and even when all his freinds go and they ask him , he just says no. but if he were to go i wouldn't mind. i trust him completely...besides, it's not much worse than watchin porn!
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October 13th, 2005, 12:21 PM
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I don't mind it at all. I see no reason to get pissed off or jealous, because I know that he's mine, and that he would never cheat on me. Besides, the only times he goes are with his guy friends (they have guy's nights out), or when one of our friends has a bachelor party.
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October 13th, 2005, 01:43 PM
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I don't see it as a big deal at all, and I think the fact that it is not "taboo" takes away the interest. My DH rarely goes (probably 3-4 times in the 5 yrs we have been together) but I trust him completely. I used to waitress at a strip club when I was younger and most of the girls are trying to make ends meet as single parents or in school....there is the occasional "certified skank" but I guarantee you there are #### in your husbands workplace as well. If he wants to go I do not view it as something I am doing wrong, he can look at Playboy, or Maxim, he can watch porn if he wants, men are visually stimulated they like to look at woman, bottom line: HE MARRIED ME and he will come home to me!! I don't think there is a relationship without trust, so if he wants to go out with the guys and unwind and it happens to be at a strip club, fine, if he wants me to go with him, that is fine too!
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October 13th, 2005, 01:47 PM
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....there is the occasional "certified skank" but I guarantee you there are #### in your husbands workplace as well.
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I agree! Strippers dont want to sleep with your husband, they are doing their job! They probably have relationships of their own. You have to be much more worried about the ladies at the office!
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I agree! Strippers dont want to sleep with your husband, they are doing their job! They probably have relationships of their own. You have to be much more worried about the ladies at the office!
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October 14th, 2005, 09:48 AM
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It depends. If it was for a bachelor party or some special occasion, it might bother me a little, but id still "let" him go.I would be kinda worried if he just went every weekend, just for fun. I think its kinda judgemental to make statements like "stirppers are drugged out skanks". Thats just a little rude. Im sure some of them are on drugs, but plenty of suburban houswives could be classified as "cracked out hores". Men like to look at naked woman, no matter how satisfied they are at home. They are genetically programmed to like naked woman.....
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I agree! Strippers dont want to sleep with your husband, they are doing their job! They probably have relationships of their own. You have to be much more worried about the ladies at the office!
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The ladies at dh's office don't walk around naked, shaking it in his face. I think it's a whole lot different than porn or magazines...it's real people. It's not a trust issue, it's a respect issue. If I didn't trust my dh, I wouldn't be with him to begin with so I'm not worried about the ladies at his office either. If you're okay with it, fine. That's just not something we choose to bring into our marriage.
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