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  #101  
November 23rd, 2005, 07:35 AM
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I wouldn't have to let him, he just wouldn't choose to go. I think he said he went to one back in his early 20's (over 20 years ago). That was enough for him. He doesn't even do anything with friends, except our church friends anyway. It's just not his type of thing to do.
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  #102  
December 20th, 2005, 07:54 AM
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of course. and i go on occasion myself.
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  #103  
December 28th, 2005, 05:07 PM
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Originally posted by mrobinson@Nov 7 2005, 04:10 PM
It doesn't mean anything... I go to work everyday and intract with males all day... that doesnt mean anything either... Take it to the other extreme - can he make any eye contact or look at any other woman? What if the women couldn't?
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Okay...the men you work with, are they naked? That's the difference. My dh does not "check out" other women out of respect for me. His friends always give him crap b/c he doesn't make comments about other women. I respect my husband the same.

Why does a husband or s/o go to look at other naked women? I honestly haven't seen an answer that makes sense to me, imho.
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My Dh is the same way, he does not check out other women and other men at work make comments about it. It does not mean that he doesn't find a woman on the street attractive, but he chooses not to LOOK out of respect for me. And I do believe that those of you who disagree with my oppinion, your Dh's DO respect you, but I believe that there is an even deeper respect with not doing these things. Leaving things within you and your spouse. And that goes for porn as well. Even watched together it does not enhance, only hinder the relationship that is better built between only the two of you. Outside influences don't bring together what sex is meant to be. A show of love on all points, physical, mental and emotional. And with other influences you can not truly give all of yourself and in a marriage that is particularly damaging because marriage was always meant to be where two people give 100% of themselves to only each other.

Anyway, I know I have differing oppinions, but this is really what I believe. I also believe that those decisions should be made between the couple. And their decisions are theirs alone. So no I wouldn't want my Dh going, but he wouldn't go anyway. I in turn will never go to one.
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  #104  
December 29th, 2005, 07:45 AM
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..he does not check out other women and other men at work make comments about it....[/b]
I hate it at work from people - what right do they have to approve or disapprove? None!

One of my proudest things I feel from my husband is he's feeling about younger women ~ he can't even look at them and has lost friendships with old buddies who think it's ok to date younger women. I think his neice, who's just hitting teenage years, is the reason. He's only thirty but he can't look at Jessica Simpson's because he says it's not right... now Janet Jackson ~ different story! I guess I'm trying to say he thinks strip clubs, with eighteen year old girls, or not a place for older men but more for teenage boys... (here in Alberta it's all legal at eighteen.)

You never know, maybe we'll remove the sticks from our butts and feel different at a different stage in life?
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December 29th, 2005, 09:28 AM
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..he does not check out other women and other men at work make comments about it....[/b]
I hate it at work from people - what right do they have to approve or disapprove? None!

One of my proudest things I feel from my husband is he's feeling about younger women ~ he can't even look at them and has lost friendships with old buddies who think it's ok to date younger women. I think his neice, who's just hitting teenage years, is the reason. He's only thirty but he can't look at Jessica Simpson's because he says it's not right... now Janet Jackson ~ different story! I guess I'm trying to say he thinks strip clubs, with eighteen year old girls, or not a place for older men but more for teenage boys... (here in Alberta it's all legal at eighteen.)

You never know, maybe we'll remove the sticks from our butts and feel different at a different stage in life?
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Who's butt are you referring to? Do you mean that when they are "dirty old men" it will be okay cause we won't want to do it anyway?
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  #106  
December 29th, 2005, 09:32 AM
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Who's butt are you referring to? [/b]
Oh man! I meant DH's and I's butts..

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Do you mean that when they are "dirty old men" it will be okay cause we won't want to do it anyway? [/b]
I think if I called DH old... it would crush him! I think he's ok with looking at the cougars! When DH and I are old (over 60) and had the surgery to remove the sticks... I think it will be funny if he did look! I mean really!
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  #107  
December 29th, 2005, 09:39 AM
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Hey, that's what Viagra is for right?
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  #108  
December 29th, 2005, 02:25 PM
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I use to waitress in one up until the 5th month of this pregnancy. And actually that is where I met my BF now 3 1/2 years ago. He still goes once in awhile to other (and it does piss me off ) MO would be why does he need to spend his money that is being takin out of my childrens mouths to go see that? or am I not hot and sexy enough to want to see my body and not someone elses (right now he probably would say yes ) Even though I worked at one for years as a part time jon and met him at one I would still be mad.
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December 31st, 2005, 02:36 PM
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nope I don't think so............if he wanted to go he should have gone before he got married!!!
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