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angelsailor288 May 25th, 2011 10:33 PM

I'm done
 
with death. Its just never ending in my family anymore I dont get it. Everyone thats young or good is either dead or sick. The bad ones are all great! Fine and dandy! I don't get it.

I'm really numb to the loss at the moment but my cousin who just turned 21 was killed tonight on his motorcycle. He was a good kid, didnt deserve this at all. I'm at a loss for words. Just wish I could hold my little boy right now :(

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Rest peacefully my sweet cousin
Wojtek Grabowski
May 12, 1990 ~ May 25, 2011

JessP May 26th, 2011 09:42 AM

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:dothug:

So sorry. Seems that the good ones leave too soon.

esparando para bebé May 27th, 2011 08:19 AM

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:cry: :dothug: I'm so sorry sweetie.

angelsailor288 May 27th, 2011 07:55 PM

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Thanks ladies :( I'm so sad.
E. B. Gormley Funeral - Thats his obit and stuff.

The whole story now that I have it, is so devastating. It was his mom and dads anniversary that day.. he was leaving to go somewhere with his 2 friends who were behind him on their bikes. They were literally no more than 1 minute from his house. He hit a little fall in the road with some rocks and got thrown off the bike, and instead of the bike going forward it followed him sideways. He slammed into a mailbox and some rocks, the bike landed on him and crushed his chest. His mom was driving home and no more than 5 mins after it happened she was going past and saw him on the road... I mean seriously, can you imagine??? That poor sweet mother.

I'm really getting depressed :(

NewportMamaBear May 27th, 2011 08:59 PM

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*hugs* I'm so sorry that you're having to go through another loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Tree_Love May 30th, 2011 03:40 AM

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:dothug: I wish you didn't have to deal with this right now, we're supposed to be having happy times... I'm around if you need anyone. Just FB me, it's on my phone so I'm pretty much reachable always.

angelsailor288 May 30th, 2011 07:49 PM

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Thanks hun I appreciate that.

The funeral today was so hard. His dad did the eulogy, which had me bawling like a baby. Then at the cemetary he was hugging the casket and saying goodbye and love you son, etc., I bawled again. Then afterwards he comes up to me and tells me to make sure that once my son is born I hug him everyday. That just really got to me. I cry just typing it :(

karan August 12th, 2011 01:59 AM

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Sad to hear about it, cheer up, things may not be that had

SeaShell_Mom4 October 10th, 2011 12:49 PM

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I truly feel your pain. I have had so much loss in the past 7 months, I am not sure ho I manage to get up each morning! I was looking through posts here and yours caught my attention.... my one constant feeling is I am done, I am jinxed and bad things are falling around me all the time. {{HUGS}}

angelsailor288 October 10th, 2011 09:18 PM

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Oh I am so sorry for your loss :( One thing Wojtek's dad keeps telling me is to hug my son everyday, and that I do. Your family is in my prayers. ((((Big Hugs))))

Parisa March 9th, 2012 06:24 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by angelsailor288 (Post 24004019)
Thanks ladies :( I'm so sad.
E. B. Gormley Funeral - Thats his obit and stuff.

The whole story now that I have it, is so devastating. It was his mom and dads anniversary that day.. he was leaving to go somewhere with his 2 friends who were behind him on their bikes. They were literally no more than 1 minute from his house. He hit a little fall in the road with some rocks and got thrown off the bike, and instead of the bike going forward it followed him sideways. He slammed into a mailbox and some rocks, the bike landed on him and crushed his chest. His mom was driving home and no more than 5 mins after it happened she was going past and saw him on the road... I mean seriously, can you imagine??? That poor sweet mother.

I'm really getting depressed :(

Oh my Gosh! I cannot even believe what I just read. What mother deserves to see their child like that? I get sick just picturing it. It is at these moments when we wonder where God was at that time. However, I totally believe that this young man was too good for this life, he has gone to a better place and God did take him away to be one of his angels. Those who pass away, feel no pain emotionally, however, it is the ones that are left with his memory. His mom will be haunted for life and I wish u and her the best of luck. I really am at a loss for words right now.......

sarahevans55 March 11th, 2012 09:09 AM

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I am so sorry for your loss. I can relate to you in so many ways. My family as well as dealt with such a huge amount of loss. I also lost one of my good friends on a motorcycle death. He was one of my best friends and at the time his wife was 6 months pregnant and came upon the scene because he had never called her and told her he had made it to work so she went looking for him and came on the scene. I could never imagine. A car had hit him and he got ejected from his bike and died at the scene. The photos of the scene were all over the news which made it worse. I miss him terribly. He was such a great man who had a 1 year old and a 6 month pregnant wife. I never understand why the good people are taken while the bad ones seem to live forever.


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