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Have you just had your first one or have you suffered two or more?

2 or 3, it depends on how you count them. One of them I'm not sure if it'd be considered a chemical or not since it took forever for the hcg to leave my system.

((((((hugs)))))) I would maybe not class that as a chemical pregnancy personally. Anything where I've had positives for at least around a week I don't usually think of as a chemical.

I've had four, one came the cycle after a miscarriage before I had my eldest, the second was between my girls (I think my short LP played a part in this) and I had two last year, one in May and one at the start of December. I think my LP is a huge factor in why I've had several early losses. It tends to be around 8 days or so. I've managed to get it up to a better length with B6 but last month it was back to 8 days. I'm hoping that was more to do with being sick with flu, otherwise the next step is progesterone.

Actually, technically speaking three of my four pregnancies were chemicals.

(((((((hugs))))))) Augie, I am so sorry for all you have been through x x

i have had two chemical pregnancies. one was last month the other one was this past week. i didn't know what the first one was at the time, but i bled so much and i was cramping so severely, i could barely walk. i've never felt anything like that in my life. but i didn't recognize it as a chemical pregnancy until i had another one this week. i had been feeling really weird for the past two months. i am 39 and have been with my bf off and on for a year and a half and just assumed since i hadn't gotten pregnant, and with my pcos, that i couldn't conceive. well, i have felt just aweful for the past two months. so, last wednesday i broke down and took a pregnancy test fully expecting it to say 'not pregnant'. imagine my surprise when it said 'pregnant'. and 'pregnant' popped up really fast, so my hcg levels must have been high. i ran to see my boyfriend at work and took the pt with me to show him that it said 'pregnant'. he freaked out hard. lol. which then freaked me out. i announced it to everyone and my 'village' had even helped me come up with baby names. by sunday i had started bleeding. monday i went for a sono and they said absolutely nothing was there. they did a blood test and said my hcg was nill. at first i was relieved, because my life is not such that it's a good time to be having a baby, but now i feel so sad and lost. i've always wanted to be a mommy. everyone including myself was celebrating that my dream was finally about to come true. then, within 5 days, the possibilities of everything i had dreamed of was gone. yes, i can try again, yes i can get my body ready since i'm older. yes, i can adopt later on if i want to. but the fact that i had two little lives inside of me that didn't make it through to this world isn't sitting well with me and it has me very sad. and what's worse is that no one understands. my best friend just told me that i have taken this baby thing way too far, that it was just a glob of cells and i should get over it, find something to occupy my time, and move on.

Angelica, I am so sorry for all you have been through (((((((hugs))))))) Any pregnancy loss is hard, whether it was planned or not, and no matter how early on. I am so sorry for your losses x x x

Please do not lose heart. Your time will come. There are things that doctors can look into for you and tests that can be done when you are ready to try for a child. A lot of doctors will only see you when you have had 3 losses in a row but you may find one who is more sympathetic.

There are some very simple things you can try first, such as finding out if your progesterone levels are too low.

I hope you will stay and post with us. Sometimes talking about it is what you need to begin to heal.

Again, I am so sorry for your loss, and welcome to the group (((((((hugs))))))))

thank you, misty. i'm glad you guys are here. my boyfriend threw a curve ball at me and decided he wants to try again, which had me totally excited. i think i'm ovulating today, and of course, we are having a snowstorm so he couldn't get to me this evening which sent me flying into a crying and screaming fit over all that's happened. i'm going to be 40 in a few months and my clock is ticking quite loudly! i cried so hard i still can't quite catch my breath. thanks for being here. at least i have somewhere to vent. i will most definitely stick around and keep you posted on how things go.

Thank You for starting this group. My CP was last fall. It was a surprise and a disappointment because it was my first pregnancy and I'd never heard of this phenomenon. I was 4+ weeks in. I'm blessed to be pregnant again, but at 6 weeks I'm still anxious. Did anyone find a solid online resource for information on CP? I would still like to know more. Thanks!

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I lost my first baby, who we call M because the names for both the boy and the girl contained the initials MLB, on December 15, 2010, it was a big loss for me and my fiance. We have been trying to concieve ever since. The baby was about 2 months along. I have since had at least 3 losses the most recent today. I am starting to lose hope but still have a little faith

I had my first chemical pregnancy this past monday the dr believes I was about 2 weeks along or so when I miscarried. my husband and I have been trying to conceive since we got married about 3 months ago. but a little on and off before that