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pamela.burke611 January 27th, 2013 02:37 PM

Haven't been around much
 
Hey ladies. I haven't been around much because I have been so busy with work and personal life and all. Everything is just really chaotic at the moment. I still lurk a lot and really should be posting more. I love reading everyone's updates and I try to comment sometimes. Anyway, my anatomy scan is Feb. 7 and I really can't wait! I am so jealous that so many people have found out already! I had a guess of boy by the ultrasound tech at my 13 week scan but I know that's super early so I didn't read too much into it, although this pregnancy is so different than the one with my daughter and I do feel as though I am having a boy.. we will see!

I am not having a good pregnancy though.. I just can't seem to catch a break and be able to enjoy it. I don't feel good at all. My belly and weight gain is already enormous and I am barely halfway there.. there is so much pressure on my bladder/uterus/abdomen it feels like a weight is pushing my lower insides all the way down.. there is like shooting pain in my area down there (sorry too much information there), and the lower back pain is ridiculous.. I am just miserable :( Please tell me I am not alone!

Also, my boyfriend makes comments about my pregnancy that upset me.. like he will be "joking" but I feel like he means them like talking about my size right now and everything.. it just isn't fun lol

So how is everyone here doing? I need to confess and say that I know I am pregnant but it's like I am not living in reality, like I don't believe another baby will be here physically with me soon..I have only bought a few onesies.. nothing more. I feel bad. Hopefully this anatomy scan will pump me up! I am so excited to find out so I can call the baby by his/her name!

mommy220 January 27th, 2013 02:44 PM

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I feel the same way. I haven't bought anything, it's like I am waiting for the gender scan and then I will go crazy. I also feel like this pregnancy has been harder on my body, I'm not sure why. My back has been going out like once a week and I can barely move.

MrsLat January 27th, 2013 04:28 PM

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I am having a hard time accepting there will really be another baby here in our home in just a couple months. I haven't bought much for the baby yet either and it feels like I am starting to run out of time already!

I am definitely uncomfortable in this pregnancy too. Maybe in some different ways but I have a lot of pressure down there too already. Baby is sitting soooo low :( Lots of hip and back pain. Boo.

Hope you are hanging in there!

Steph625 January 27th, 2013 05:13 PM

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You are definitely not alone girl! I have major pressure down there already! Ugh. And my back hurts all the time. Double ugh! Just from experience...I feel even more connected after my anatomy scan. Just because I can call the baby by his name and so forth. I still haven't bought anything yet, except a couple diapers, but that's because I'm sorta waiting after my shower.

Just talk to your boyfriend. Let him know that his joking comments hurt your feeling. That you re more emotional during this time of life. Some men just don't get it. Will he be joining you for the anatomy scan?

Hang in there love! Text me ANYTIME you are feeling down or feeling ANYTHING for that matter! Lots of hugs!!!

navywifey2003 January 27th, 2013 07:42 PM

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Hugs Hun! I too am feeling so blech this time around. That's what the group is hear from support! Don't fall off the face of the board we will find you!

pamela.burke611 January 28th, 2013 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by mommy220 (Post 27021898)
I feel the same way. I haven't bought anything, it's like I am waiting for the gender scan and then I will go crazy. I also feel like this pregnancy has been harder on my body, I'm not sure why. My back has been going out like once a week and I can barely move.

This is so me! and about the barely being able to move, me too! It is seriously a workout just to get up, I have to grunt and everything! I am so scared since I am already so big I can't imagine my belly becoming double or triple the size it is :O

pamela.burke611 January 28th, 2013 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Valerie.June2013 (Post 27022183)
I am having a hard time accepting there will really be another baby here in our home in just a couple months. I haven't bought much for the baby yet either and it feels like I am starting to run out of time already!

I am definitely uncomfortable in this pregnancy too. Maybe in some different ways but I have a lot of pressure down there too already. Baby is sitting soooo low :( Lots of hip and back pain. Boo.

Hope you are hanging in there!

It also feels for me like I am running out of time! I know I need to get moving here but it's like I am frozen lol anyway thanks girl I know what you mean about the back pain it's horrible! I hope you're hanging in there as well!

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Originally Posted by Steph625 (Post 27022326)
You are definitely not alone girl! I have major pressure down there already! Ugh. And my back hurts all the time. Double ugh! Just from experience...I feel even more connected after my anatomy scan. Just because I can call the baby by his name and so forth. I still haven't bought anything yet, except a couple diapers, but that's because I'm sorta waiting after my shower.

Just talk to your boyfriend. Let him know that his joking comments hurt your feeling. That you re more emotional during this time of life. Some men just don't get it. Will he be joining you for the anatomy scan?

Hang in there love! Text me ANYTIME you are feeling down or feeling ANYTHING for that matter! Lots of hugs!!!

Sounds like you and I are really similar with the pressure and back pain! I am praying for us lol cause we are only halfway there! I cannot wait until my anatomy scan because, I think I will in fact feel more connected and realize there really is a baby that's about to be here soon :) I love the baby I have just been so busy and stressed I haven't been able to sit and think about it much.

I definitely talk to him and he says he is kidding so hopefully he mellows out. He did tell me the other day that he thinks my pregnant frame is beautiful though. I think when he's in the mood for action though he'd rather it be just me and not pregnant me. lol. What is it with men and being so afraid of pregnancy? He will be there for the anatomy scan. I hope he is happy with the result no matter what though because I know that he would be ecstatic for a boy, since we already have a girl. He tells me all the time I am having a boy and won't even consider the possibility of this being a girl.. so we will see! hehe Thanks for being there for me honey and you also text or message me anytime!!!! :D *hugs*

pamela.burke611 January 28th, 2013 05:39 PM

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Originally Posted by navywifey2003 (Post 27022859)
Hugs Hun! I too am feeling so blech this time around. That's what the group is hear from support! Don't fall off the face of the board we will find you!

hahaha thanks hun <3 I hope you get to feeling better as well!


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