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Mom2Brendan January 24th, 2013 08:28 PM

Start Now with Saying No Excuse for Abuse
 
A lot of eight years old become liars,oppositional,defiant,aggressive,and mood swings.

Lecturing gets my boy to hear Nothing he tunes me out.

Homework is denied and not done.

Putting Consequences on the table for 8 year old oh the ones like mine React so Bad at the Word No.

I'm like my boy was awesome from baby -2nd Grade.

Then he got into opposite behavior this year and I'm like ugh. Counselor told me don't mention his homework as it strikes a Grrrrrrr type of cord in my boy so then I didn't and he is now forgetting spelling words to bring home failed 3 spelling tests,and 20 pages behind.

So aggressive mood swings where No's are making angry Kids that become physcial say that all the time during throwing objects,hitting,kicking,biting,shoving,etc

Momof4Boyz January 25th, 2013 07:21 AM

Re: Start Now with Saying No Excuse for Abuse
 
That just doesn't sound like typical behavior, is there something in his life maybe causing it? Stress? Family problems? Have you considering having him seen by someone to see what's going on?

Mom2Brendan January 25th, 2013 07:46 AM

Re: Start Now with Saying No Excuse for Abuse
 
The cause of it is a very bad bully in our neighborhood whose an adult besides a Mother has been attacking my son verbally ever since Sept. No one can seem to help him because No one is Stopping Her!!!!

Counselor can't,I tried too at least 5 x times by reporting to landlord and bad behavior to Housing Authority and nothing.

The only way I can stop it is by moving and I can't move. Not Enough Money and Not much Sec.8 apartments with w/d hookups.


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