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PinkFireFly December 31st, 2009 04:10 PM

Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
This Monday I go for my 6 weeks post partum check-up.

I am currently BFing although supplementing with at most or if at any a bottle of forumla a day, so Noelle is not exclusively BF.

I haven't regained my menstration yet, and still have light discharge of lochia.

Now.... I am really wanting to have a romantic evening planned in the next week or so with my husband and maybe end of having some lovemaking.... so should I worry about protection?

What would be your suggestions? Condom just to be safe?

3xCrazy December 31st, 2009 04:37 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
you can still become pregnant while breastfeeding even if you dont have a period yet. I got pregnant with my daughter before I got a period back from having my son. Breastfeeding isnt always a contraception method for all women and if you arent ready for another child i wouldnt want to take the chance if i were you lol.

PixieQueen December 31st, 2009 05:13 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Although I didn't get AF back for a year after Tanith, I'm not taking any chances until I know that my body is reacting that way again, so we'll be using condoms for at least a couple of months.

moon~maiden December 31st, 2009 05:15 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
I never counted on Bfing as birth control, but I am super paranoid. I would recommend using something.

Kelllilee December 31st, 2009 05:43 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
:ditto: to everyone else! We just use the pull-out method, so there's still a chance, but since I only ovulate 1-2 times a year, the risk is pretty minimal for us...

HappyHippy December 31st, 2009 05:58 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Do what you feel comfortable with. If a condom makes you feel better about it, then go for it. You probably won't get pregnant, but you never know.

ChicaChels December 31st, 2009 06:06 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
I am EBF'ing but my period showed at exactly 2m pp - weve done nothing to prevent (not even pull out) and I'm not preggo :) I wouldnt stress about it but if anything you can pull out!

Gobaby1 December 31st, 2009 06:15 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Pull out method = 40w6d preggo for me... just saying! ;)

The Purple Butterfly December 31st, 2009 06:19 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Personally, I don't know how you can even think of DTD. :lol: It was painful until like 4mos PP. I have no sex drive either while BFing. We always use the pull-out method and seems to work. Let me know how it goes. :p

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gobaby1 (Post 18484544)
Pull out method = 40w6d preggo for me... just saying! ;)

It's worked perfectly for both my 1st marriage and this one. There's key to the pull-out method and that's to pull-out BEFORE it starts to expel and then finish. Some people think as long as they pull out during that they will be fine. :lol: If there's enough foreplay than the pre stuff will happen during that time and not be a risk. :2cents:

andi2284 December 31st, 2009 08:33 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Yes, use condoms. Using breastfeeding as birth control is not effective if you are supplementing even once a week. Even then, you can ovulate before getting a period, so if you don't know what to look for, you should use condoms to be safe.

For some people pulling out seems to work, but it's really one of the least effective methods of birth control. I would not rely on it to prevent getting pregnant, even before getting my first PP period back.

Mystic_Mommy December 31st, 2009 09:52 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Best to be safe since there is still a chance you can conceive, even before AF has returned or while Breastfeeding. :)

moon~maiden January 1st, 2010 06:43 AM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Cadie never had a drop of formula and wasn't on a schedule, and I got my period at 3 months pp. I was so bummed. And that first period back was brutal for me! ugh.

DoulaMama January 1st, 2010 08:04 AM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
bf is 90%, so is pull out- if done right. so the two are over 95% effective.that means a 5% chance each month. it's all we're doing. and tracking o signs.

nak

QueenCrafty January 1st, 2010 12:52 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
I was paranoid too even though I didn't get AF until 6 months pp, so I always used condoms.

NutMeg76 January 1st, 2010 01:48 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
Pull out is only slightly less effective than condoms if done correctly every time. http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/journ...79-407-410.pdf

BF is only effective for birth control if you are doing ecological breastfeeding, meaning baby is brought to the breast every time they have a need to suck. No pacifiers, no supplementing, etc.

If you are really concerned about pregnancy then you should use some sort of protection.

PinkFireFly January 1st, 2010 04:38 PM

Re: Regarding sex after 6weeks postpartum
 
So I shall be using a condom then... or pull out which ever strikes the mood...

I can honestly tell you I want to DTD soooooooooooo bad!!!! I miss being intimate with my DH... the night my water broke we were suppose to have "quality time" per our MW's orders... needless to say Noelle had other plans!


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