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Kayla0308 November 28th, 2011 03:06 PM

Feeling blue lately
 
I donno whats wrong with me now. I'm just feeling a little down lately, I really feel like crying today. Mark and I kinda got into it this morning about me needing to call the dr (for the d&c) today and I told him i wasn't doing it. My last 2 miscarriages did fine on their own, this one will to I'm sure. Not only that - whats the point in going in now, he doesnt want to try untill May. So who cares if the sac stays in there untill then...Not me. I dont really want to wait untill may, I wan't to try again In january. If we wait untill may that means I wont have a baby untill 2013. I dont want to wait that long then Zaylee will be 3 and I wanted her some what close to another baby. And honestly at this point she wont be close at all. I'm just sad about life right now.

plan4fate November 28th, 2011 03:27 PM

Re: Feeling blue lately
 
*hugs*

I don't really have any advice, I booked my surgery as soon as I found out the babies weren't going to make it.. I didn't want to be pregnant a second longer than I had to because I knew it wouldn't get me a baby in the end.

ShesaDreamer November 28th, 2011 04:25 PM

Re: Feeling blue lately
 
:dothug:

*JenJen* November 29th, 2011 06:57 AM

Re: Feeling blue lately
 
*hugs* I really don't have any advice, mostly because I wish I could have had a D&C so that we could have done genetic testing on the baby to see if there was a reason for the loss.

I hope you guys can find some middle ground.

ZoePaigesMommy November 29th, 2011 07:43 AM

Re: Feeling blue lately
 
I understand not wanting a d&c, to me it was always "what if" but remember if that stuff stays in there too long it could cause an infection.

Sounds like you and your SO need to sit and talk about what each of you wants at this point. :dothug:

esparando para bebé November 29th, 2011 01:22 PM

Re: Feeling blue lately
 
*hugs*


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