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plan4fate March 18th, 2013 05:42 PM

My SIL is pregnant...
 
and due 3w after Konnor's edd... lovely.

So not only is she having an unplanned pregnancy. But she's going to get the August baby we should have been having.

*sigh*

Life isn't fair.

Sunrise March 19th, 2013 09:01 AM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
I'm so sorry. It's just not fair.

My SO's BFF is getting their July baby (edd month from my 2 mc). His other BFF had their baby last year on edd month of my 1 mc.

It feels a bit personal right!! But it's not, and I know you know that. Hang in there. Your support is right here. (Hugs)

plan4fate March 19th, 2013 11:39 AM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
I think it would be different if we got along with his sisters, but we don't.

ZoeChloeMommy March 19th, 2013 02:42 PM

*hugs*

lelila March 20th, 2013 08:24 AM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
In the same boat. SIL is due 2 days before we were. She's a teacher and quote unquote loves kids, but if one cries, pukes or poops she is not only running in the opposite direction in disgust, she gets mad and yells at the kid and parent. Yep, her mother will be raising her kid so she can go out to the bars with her friends.

Just another kick in the gut.

MelChicago March 20th, 2013 05:16 PM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
Ugh. I'm sorry. I too am in the same boat- my SIL is due within a week of my (second loss) EDD in Sept. She doesn't know about my miscarriages, or that I was ever pregnant. My brother knows- he and I are really close, my SIL and I not really (no bad blood, just lack of proximity- she's also from another country originally). Once I found out they were expecting, I did tell my bro what happened to me, but told him not to tell his wife. I don't want to stress her out.

Anyway. Enough about me. Sending hugs.

Coffee_Bean March 22nd, 2013 06:54 AM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
Know how that feels. We've been trying for 4 years and my coworker is due the same day as I was. She eats like crap and got pregnant on purpose. Im about to have my miscarriage. Not fair.

Happy Song March 24th, 2013 10:18 PM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
These situations are so hard. :dothug:

*JenJen* March 28th, 2013 09:38 AM

Re: My SIL is pregnant...
 
*hugs*


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