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Forum: Trying to Conceive with Medical Assistance August 30th, 2014, 11:52 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 41
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Intro and where I'm at so far

An ob. I went to her for my pap and to talk about fertility testing. She kind of just went along and started treatment. I feel like maybe I should go to a fertility specialist. Should I ask my ob if...
Forum: Trying to Conceive with Medical Assistance August 30th, 2014, 10:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 41
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Intro and where I'm at so far

not that I know of. She said she wants to do an exam to confirm I'm ovulating and follow it up with bloodwork. So I really have no idea at this point. I'm thinking since she said cd 11-15 I will...
Forum: Trying to Conceive with Medical Assistance August 29th, 2014, 03:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 41
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Intro and where I'm at so far

Hi everyone! I'm here by the suggestion of Ashley, (plan4fate.) DH and I were married in March 2013. He has a soon to be 10 year old son, and we are trying for our first together. I am 27 and DH is...
Forum: Blended Families August 27th, 2014, 09:41 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 170
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Update

Congratulations on 17 years sober! What an accomplishment! People like you are who I have respect for. You recognized your problems and you fixed them. I can only hope that she recognized hers and is...
Forum: Blended Families August 25th, 2014, 04:11 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 170
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Update

We'll see. DH finds it too coincidental that she decided to jump into rehab once she's homeless. Hes not convinced shes there for the right reasons yet.


Oh I know. Just irked me a little. Im...
Forum: Blended Families August 22nd, 2014, 12:41 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 170
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Update

Yeah exactly. Am I gonna hold it against him? No. I'm over it. I wish he would have waited for us to discuss it with Owen first, and I wish he would have worded it differently. But What's done is...
Forum: Blended Families August 22nd, 2014, 10:26 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 170
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Update

Well she's in rehab now. She checked in yesterday and her parents confirmed it. It's a year long program, and she apparently hasn't used since Sunday.

Small victories. She has a long way to go.
...
Forum: Blended Families August 12th, 2014, 10:24 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 143
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Might Create History Here

How awesome! Let us know if it all works out!
Forum: Blended Families August 10th, 2014, 08:36 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 230
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Little update

I agree with that. Some kids have absent moms or dads and the void isn't filled by someone else. Owen knows how loved he is and that I would do anything for him. It's unfortunate, yes, that he...
Forum: Blended Families August 8th, 2014, 08:29 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 230
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Little update

Thanks, It's just hard. He had his first day of school Wednesday and didn't even get to share that memory with her. We literally have not heard a word since her text full of empty promises.

...
Forum: Blended Families August 4th, 2014, 12:26 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 230
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Little update

While driving home from vacation last Saturday, I came across, (thanks to my superior stalking skills,) documentation from the Justice courts that a judgement had been ordered against BM, and she was...
Forum: Blended Families July 21st, 2014, 08:53 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: She's back

I'm sorry that you had to go through that. It's got to be tough when kids have to grow up knowing they were treated so badly by the person that is supposed to be there for them.
Forum: Blended Families July 19th, 2014, 09:30 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: She's back

It's tough. Owen is at the age where her being gone is going to have the longest lasting effect. If he were 5 or 6, he'd be able to get past this. But he will never respect her as a parent again. How...
Forum: Blended Families July 18th, 2014, 04:51 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: She's back

Exactly. I know we've discussed this before, but I am a firm believer that rehab and sobriety has so much less to do with abstaining from drugs and alcohol and more getting rid of the mindset that...
Forum: Blended Families July 16th, 2014, 01:07 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: She's back

Eric never replied to her text of empty promises, and she stopped texting after that. My guess is she found some drugs, is back out of touch with reality, and won't be seeing the inside of a rehab...
Forum: Blended Families July 15th, 2014, 01:50 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: She's back

Just got this text from her:

"I don't wanna do what I want. I wanna do for Owen. OWEN I LOVE YOU. I am giving up nursing school & getting into a 90 day treatment facility asap. OWEN I HOPE EVERY...
Forum: Blended Families July 15th, 2014, 12:17 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 346
Posted By Stepmom2Be
She's back

Well the beast is back.

Apparently a few days ago she showed up at her parents house, (her brother and fam is staying there until their house closes,) and wanted to use their phone and internet,...
Forum: Blended Families June 30th, 2014, 02:38 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 180
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Gonna try to liven up the board a bit!

Who you are: Jennifer


A well known fact about you: My husband and I have full custody of his (our) son.


A little known fact about you: I am in my second semester of college, going for a...
Forum: Blended Families June 30th, 2014, 12:02 AM
Replies: 0
Views: 149
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Take a magical adventure with me

To the private forum
Forum: Blended Families June 24th, 2014, 07:43 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 331
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: First official day of summer check in!

Well DH just found out he likely has to go to Michigan next week for a 6 week long project. We looked at a calendar, saw Owen still has more than that before he's back in school, and decided that if...
Forum: Blended Families June 22nd, 2014, 02:24 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 331
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: First official day of summer check in!

Ugh. The first day of summer. We're in Arizona, and summer means staying indoors if at all possible. We venture out in the evening time to go swimming or get ice cream, but for the most part, we stay...
Forum: Blended Families June 19th, 2014, 04:00 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 392
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Just checking in

I believe so. Again, we are only assuming she is claiming she has him for food stamps.


We got a letter from his school in April that said, "Due to your recent approval for government assistance,...
Forum: Blended Families June 18th, 2014, 01:47 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 392
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Just checking in

Good point. My mom said that maybe they didn't think it would be a big deal to bring Owen there because maybe they know something about her that we don't and they know for a fact that she wouldn't...
Forum: Blended Families June 17th, 2014, 09:07 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 392
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Just checking in

Well he just got home.

No talk of BM. They didn't talk about her, nor did they try to get him to see her. He did, however, forget his phone at their house. Luckily this is a phone we just set up...
Forum: Blended Families June 17th, 2014, 04:44 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 392
Posted By Stepmom2Be
Re: Just checking in

True.


DH spoke to grandpa today. He says that she is still waiting to get into a place. I don't think I believe that. But grandpa seemed very removed from the situation, as if he really doesn't...
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