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ameadows08 August 30th, 2013 11:57 PM

Nervous , who is my babys father ?
 
ok so I already know im a bad person from hiding this but im not here asking this for people to be rude. my last period was december 1st 2012-December 5th . I should have ovulated around the 12th -14th. my boyfriend and I broke iup and I had sex with someome on the 4th with no condom but he pulled out early . then a few days later I got back with my ex that wanted to try to have a baby, he ejaculated inside of me the 12th-16th.who do you think the father is , is it even possible that the other guy got me pregnant on accident when I was trying with my ex in the first place ? im just about to have the baby and now im worried about it because my now fiance is so excited, I dont know if I should tell him to get it off my chest or what :(

Keakie August 31st, 2013 10:53 AM

Re: Nervous , who is my babys father ?
 
How are you confirming that you ovulated from the 12th-14th?

If you have all of your dates correct, it's a lot more likely that your ex would be the father. If you had sex with someone else on December 4th, the sperm couldn't have lived long enough to fertilize an egg released to 8-10 days later.

littlecatlady August 31st, 2013 12:35 PM

Re: Nervous , who is my babys father ?
 
I agree with Keakie. You can't get pregnant while you're on your period - the uterus is a hostile place at that time of the month, and sperm simply can't live that long. Having said that, if you love your fiancee, I'm a firm believer of being completely honest with him. If you don't talk about this with him now, it will eat you up for a long long time.

AmbzAsh August 31st, 2013 04:41 PM

Re: Nervous , who is my babys father ?
 
:ditto: what Keakie said.

I also second what littlecatlady said as well. I think you need to be honest with him. This is not something you will just "forget" once the baby is here. Once the baby is here and you see him/her everyday, it is going to weigh heavily on your mind. Best of luck hun!

ameadows08 August 31st, 2013 05:38 PM

Re: Nervous , who is my babys father ?
 
thank you ladies , I guess I just figured my ovulation was 12th-14th because usually its the 14th day of my cycle but I could be wrong obviously. I just didnt know if I was freaking about nothing if I couls even get pregnant with possible precum on period vs full on ejaculation right after my period!


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