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LaLaLa1 April 17th, 2009 12:00 AM

52 days
 
yup, that's right. I was in New York and just as I thought, I got my stupid AF there. So my last cycle officially lasted FIFTY TWO days. I don't even know how to comprehend this. Something just doesn't sound right about that. I have NO idea what to expect for my next cycle. No idea.

Before I got pregnant with Katrina (after I got off bc pills), my cycle was about 35 days on average. After I lost Katrina it went down to about 29 - 31 days which I was happy about (b/c at least if I didn't get pregnant, it wouldn't take as long to get to BDing again). Now it's so long I really don't know how to understand this or what to expect. I don't know why it just keeps getting worse and worse for us.

The funny thing is, when I saw that it came in NY, it didn't really affect me. Now that I'm home and *back to reality* it really hurts. I just want to curl up into a ball and die.

:brickwall:

claire1979 April 17th, 2009 01:28 AM

Re: 52 days
 
awww hun im sorry, i really have my fingers crossed u get ur bfp next cycle x

LauraG April 17th, 2009 05:33 AM

Re: 52 days
 
I'm so sorry. It's so unfair after everything you have been through. I hope you can get some quick answers and get your bfp very soon. I know how frustrating af can be and the change in cycles.

lex1078 April 17th, 2009 05:41 AM

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I'm so sorry AF came during your vaca. I wish you knew why this happened. I'm confident you will get your BFP soon.

LizaJean75 April 17th, 2009 07:37 AM

Re: 52 days
 
I am very sorry you have to deal with long/unpredictable cycles along with everything else. I hope you get that BFP in this next go round! Good luck to you.

rebeccabaltimore and more April 17th, 2009 10:11 AM

Re: 52 days
 
You should go see a doctor. When DH and I first started TTC, my cycle did that - I had only 2 AF in a 3 month period. I saw my doctor (who is also a fertility specialist), he gave us teensy bit of help, and bang, we were pregnant with Ethan the next month. I'm using the same meds again when we start TTC next month.

LaLaLa1 April 17th, 2009 10:34 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by rebeccabaltimore (Post 15411969)
You should go see a doctor. When DH and I first started TTC, my cycle did that - I had only 2 AF in a 3 month period. I saw my doctor (who is also a fertility specialist), he gave us teensy bit of help, and bang, we were pregnant with Ethan the next month. I'm using the same meds again when we start TTC next month.

When I went to my Dr. last Monday, he didn't seem all that concerned that it was so long. But that's why he's sending us to the fertility clinic so we can get answers from the specialists. I really, really hope they have some answers for us. But who knows.

BakingMommy April 17th, 2009 03:33 PM

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I hope these specialists can help you. I can't imagine how frustrating this is. You are going to be a mother to a living, breathing baby...and you're going to be a wonderful mother to them, because you already are a wonderful mother. I just can't wait til it happens for you two.

MrsPoe April 17th, 2009 09:37 PM

Re: 52 days
 
Long cycles are so extremely frustrating. I was never dx'd with pcos but my endo said she "thought" that I had it, but it was nearly impossible to test for because I am already diabetic. I know that my cycles were always all over the place. My average was one every 2-3 months. It sucked so bad because I never knew when I was going to O. I used opk's for months straight waiting to see 2 lines and sometimes never did. Then after my Abby I had some cycles that were only 22 days the one that I got pregnant with Hannah I o'd on cd45! The month before I got pg with her I started using Maca Root. It was the best thing I could have done. I had a "NORMAL" cycle. I o'd on cd 17 and had a 12 day lp. The next month I was taking it again but ended up getting a cold and ran out of maca, so I stopped taking it and never got around to going out and buying more, but basically a couple weeks later I tested and it was a bfp to my surprise. Anyways I don't know if your interested in it but I loved the maca. Having normal cycles is half of the battle. And its never fun getting af, but it was better when it came like it should instead of having 4-6 ww's. HUGS! I used to tell myself that each time af showed up that was one cycle closer to getting my BFP, so heres to your being one month closer!


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