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Seaweed June 18th, 2013 05:26 AM

Final decision made! :-(
 
Well girls, after a lot of consideration I have made my decision. I won't TTC this month. I will skip this month and try from the next one again. It is a difficult decision and it breaks my heart especially with my friend having her baby in 2 weeks but its for the best. If I try from next month I will at least have started my new job and will be entitled to private maternity leave. Otherwise I would have to rely on the goverments one which is crap. Also I will have started my job non pregnant which means I wont have deceived them, making me more reliable. I need to have a job to go back to after maternity as I need to make sure my baby has the best life possible. It is upsetting but its only a month and I only want to provide my baby the best future, a good life! And maybe a break from all this could do good u never know. I will be popping in to check on everyone, but please keep me posted, I want to know your updates. For first time in my life I am hoping to not be preggo this month lol. We BD yesterday, before I made up my mind and O is in 3 days!!!!! Pffff Good luck to all of you girls!

Gamer_Princess June 18th, 2013 06:20 AM

Re: Final decision.
 
I had a break cycle and it made me feel so much better :) Good luck hun!

Seaweed June 18th, 2013 12:26 PM

Re: Final decision made! :-(
 
I keep feeling confused and having second thoughts but I need to stick to it.....I cant be without a job :-(

babygirlbaby June 18th, 2013 12:31 PM

Re: Final decision made! :-(
 
Sounds like you're making a good decision! I hope this cycle goes quickly for you, so you can get back to ttc soon :)

Gamer_Princess June 18th, 2013 03:15 PM

Re: Final decision made! :-(
 
The thing to remember is that you are doing what is best for your family and your future family :) Maybe try a NTNP cycle and see what happens :)

JCT2005 June 18th, 2013 08:33 PM

Re: Final decision made! :-(
 
There's nothing wrong with taking a break. You got to do what is best for you, your DH, and your future family. Good luck with your new job. :smile:


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