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hopemiami June 23rd, 2014 11:11 AM

Need a friend going thru IVF Cycle..
 
This is my first time posting something on a forum and Ireally need to talk to someone.
Iím 28 years old and my husband is 33 we been TTC for over 3years now.
We had 3-failed IUI in 2013 and I am now on 2WW of my 1stIVF cycle.
We were tested and I had no issues, however, my husband hasa low sperm count.
I have 2 more days to go until my (blood) pregnancy test andI am starting to fall into depression feeling like nothing is going to happen.
I been taking pregnancy test everyday and been gettingnegative results.
I know I shouldnít take them and just wait for the doctorbut I couldnít help myself.
Iím starting to lose hope being so young and not able tohave a child is really hurtful.
My family and friends have no idea that we are going thruthis so itís really hard to even speak to anyone.
Reading all the forums I thought it might help me postsomething.

moonjewels June 23rd, 2014 11:17 AM

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Dont lose hope!!! Wait to see what the blood test reveals. Sometimes it can be too early to take a pregnancy test. Think positive and stay away from the sticks. Goodluck to you!

hopemiami June 23rd, 2014 11:19 AM

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@moonjewels .. Thank you .. I'm trying ...

moonjewels June 23rd, 2014 11:24 AM

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I know its hard dear, but really its still early. I'll pray for you.

Kelkl June 23rd, 2014 11:38 AM

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Hi Hope- Welcome, we are all here to support you.

Your story is similar to mine. I have been trying for a few years, had 7 failed IUIs and moved onto IVF. I don't ovulate without meds but when I do use the meds, I don't get pregnant. However, I did get pregnant with my first IVF cycle, it just didn't end up working out. Stay strong and know this isn't the end of the road for you. Many people get pregnant on their 2nd and 3rd attempts at IVF. Do you have any frozen embryos?

hopemiami June 23rd, 2014 12:08 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Kelkl (Post 28122299)
Hi Hope- Welcome, we are all here to support you.

Your story is similar to mine. I have been trying for a few years, had 7 failed IUIs and moved onto IVF. I don't ovulate without meds but when I do use the meds, I don't get pregnant. However, I did get pregnant with my first IVF cycle, it just didn't end up working out. Stay strong and know this isn't the end of the road for you. Many people get pregnant on their 2nd and 3rd attempts at IVF. Do you have any frozen embryos?


Thank you Kelkl, I wish you luck!!!!
Yes, Retrieved 21 eggs; 15 fertilized with ICSI; transferred 1; frozen 8.




Franky85 June 23rd, 2014 05:25 PM

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Hopemiami- dont give up trust me this was our first and only ivf cycle we cant not afford to do it again. What day did you transfer on? I am only a year older then and I started getting depressed to. All my friends are having babies and not even trying :( I got to the point where I couldnt go to babyshowers. So far my first cycle is a success I have my first u/s on thursday and they will tell me how far along I am. Dont give up hope this is your cycle trust me

hopemiami June 23rd, 2014 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Franky85 (Post 28122706)
Hopemiami- dont give up trust me this was our first and only ivf cycle we cant not afford to do it again. What day did you transfer on? I am only a year older then and I started getting depressed to. All my friends are having babies and not even trying :( I got to the point where I couldnt go to babyshowers. So far my first cycle is a success I have my first u/s on thursday and they will tell me how far along I am. Dont give up hope this is your cycle trust me

I had my transfer last Monday June 16.Still had a negative result using a pregnancy test.
I am having cramps and low grade fever at night, which I never had before.

Franky85 June 23rd, 2014 06:57 PM

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I had all negatives till 2 or 3 days before my beta and they were really light positives. Dont give up cramping can be a good sign not sure about the fever. you might want to call the clinic on that.

hopemiami June 23rd, 2014 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Franky85 (Post 28122794)
I had all negatives till 2 or 3 days before my beta and they were really light positives. Dont give up cramping can be a good sign not sure about the fever. you might want to call the clinic on that.

Thanks Franky85!!
That's what my husband said
I did call about the fever they said it's not related that I might of just got sick.
They only thing they recommend is to watch my fever so it doesn't get worse.

Liyana June 24th, 2014 05:39 AM

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Hi hopemiami,

And :welcome: :)
Wow, you have 8 frozen cuties thats amazing, but I wish so so so much luck with your BETA over tomorrow!
Have you had 2 days transfer, Day3, or Day 5?

Hope - are OUR best friend - All ladies here hopes to get pregnant indeed me....(I am 5dp2dt)
Dont loose hope like Crystal said!
You need to be brave!

hopemiami June 24th, 2014 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Liyana (Post 28123114)
Hi hopemiami,

And :welcome: :)
Wow, you have 8 frozen cuties thats amazing, but I wish so so so much luck with your BETA over tomorrow!
Have you had 2 days transfer, Day3, or Day 5?

Hope - are OUR best friend - All ladies here hopes to get pregnant indeed me....(I am 5dp2dt)
Dont loose hope like Crystal said!
You need to be brave!



I had day 5 transfer.
Thankyou I woke up this morning in a better mood.
Hopefully it works.
:fingerscrossed:


I will keep everyone post about my results tomorrow..

Liyana June 24th, 2014 09:59 AM

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Hi Hopemiami,

May I ask what is your real name, then is better to chat ;)
What date you had your transfer? 11th of June ?
I will be thinking of you tomorrow and wish u a ton`s of luck tomorrow!!
I will definitely hold my eye on your update tomorrow.
Have you re-tested? Have you tried Clearblue digi?
Be positive,hun and be brave!!

hopemiami June 24th, 2014 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Liyana (Post 28123407)
Hi Hopemiami,

May I ask what is your real name, then is better to chat ;)
What date you had your transfer? 11th of June ?
I will be thinking of you tomorrow and wish u a ton`s of luck tomorrow!!
I will definitely hold my eye on your update tomorrow.
Have you re-tested? Have you tried Clearblue digi?
Be positive,hun and be brave!!

My name is Nicole.
I had my 5th day transfer on June 16th,
Thank you Liyana for all the luck I really need it tomorrow.
I havenít retested and I was using those cheap pregnancytests I think they are by Wondfo.
I havenít tried Clearblue digital do you recommend them?

moonjewels June 24th, 2014 12:51 PM

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The cheapies always seem to be the most sensitive. .88 at Walmart, lol.

hopemiami June 24th, 2014 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by moonjewels (Post 28123618)
The cheapies always seem to be the most sensitive. .88 at Walmart, lol.

Im already going to wait for tomorrow.
Trying to stay positive but its hard.

april18 June 24th, 2014 03:50 PM

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hi Hope! i hope your bean really sticks in there. you are SO blessed to have 8 frosties!!! rally & truly that's an AMAZING number. it sounds like you responded wonderfully to treatment. it is a tough journey to go through, but try to stay positive, it really helps during this crazy roller coaster. sending happy thoughts your way & praying for a positive beta :D

hopemiami June 24th, 2014 04:19 PM

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Originally Posted by april18 (Post 28123797)
hi Hope! i hope your bean really sticks in there. you are SO blessed to have 8 frosties!!! rally & truly that's an AMAZING number. it sounds like you responded wonderfully to treatment. it is a tough journey to go through, but try to stay positive, it really helps during this crazy roller coaster. sending happy thoughts your way & praying for a positive beta :D

Thank you very much April 18!!!
I'm trying my best .
Today I'm having a pretty good day, hopefully tomorrow I will get some wonderful news..

hopemiami June 25th, 2014 12:53 PM

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So it's good and bad news.I am pregnant but my hcg levels are very low.
The doctor wants me back saturday to test again.
He said it could go either way at this point.

Kelkl June 25th, 2014 05:34 PM

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Hi hope...I was afraid you might say that. :(

I had the exact same thing happen to me my first cycle. How low was your beta? I heard a lot of people with successful pregnancies after a low beta but a few things must happen, the beta must continue double and the embryo has to keep growing. Mine was really, really low so my doc knew it was an unhealthy embryo very early on. You could be one of the few who implanted late or has a low beta which doubles perfectly. I'll be wishing good things for you. Although, I know how frustrating getting this news must be. I had to go through several blood tests and my HCG kept rising but not at the level it should. I just wanted to know one way or the other. Hang in there.


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